May 20, 2026

Why Rosemary’s Baby Is The Ultimate Blueprint For Psychological Manipulation

Why Rosemary’s Baby Is The Ultimate Blueprint For Psychological Manipulation
Why Rosemary’s Baby Is The Ultimate Blueprint For Psychological Manipulation
Parallel Frequencies with Just Blane and Coco
Why Rosemary’s Baby Is The Ultimate Blueprint For Psychological Manipulation
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Lean in closely, because we are stepping directly into the claustrophobic apartment building that birthed modern psychological horror. In this episode of Parallel Frequencies, Just Blane and Coco take a scalpel to the 1968 masterpiece Rosemary’s Baby to unpack why its terrifying narrative still cuts deep over fifty years later. While the surface plot deals with covens and the supernatural, the genuine, lingering dread stems from cold human betrayal and systematic gaslighting.

We tear down the chilling performance of John Cassavetes as Guy Woodhouse—the ultimate struggling actor whose ravenous desire for success leads him to make the ultimate corporate casting couch deal at the expense of his wife's autonomy. Coco examines the architectural isolation of the Bramford floor plans and illuminates the tragic generational trauma of women whose instincts are ignored by authority figures. From Ruth Gordon's masterfully sinister, "smothering" hospitality to the dangerous traps of midcentury people-pleasing, we look at the vital importance of setting boundaries before the price of admission becomes too high. We also address the dark shadow of director Roman Polanski and debate whether an audience can truly separate timeless art from a broken artist.

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All right, lean in for a second because we need

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to talk about the absolute blueprint for parental

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paranoia. We're stepping into the apartment building

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that basically birthed modern psychological horror.

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And no, Coco, I'm not talking about your last

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apartment complex, though the landlord vibe was

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familiar. Talking about Rosemary's Baby. What

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a masterpiece this movie is. This is Parallel

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Frequencies. I am just playing. She is Coco.

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You're the freaks. What's up over there, Coco?

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Are you ready for Rosemary's Baby? More than

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ready. More than ready. I have never seen this

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movie before and watched it. To prepare for this

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episode today, for you freaks, and as I'm watching

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it, I'm thinking, how is this the first time

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I've ever seen this? Right? I figured, I didn't

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want to hype it up. for you too much i wanted

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you to kind of be surprised but i knew what you

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were getting into you know i don't know what

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i was getting into when i ordered my package

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you see i'm still sitting here waiting on that

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we're still sitting here waiting for your package

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same spot same clothes same clothes worse worse

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smell at this point so everything's the same

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except the smell um Yeah, I probably. No, no,

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no. But for real, we're actually recording ahead

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of time. Tell us why we're recording ahead of

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time. All right. Well, it's Wistful Wednesday.

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But on Wednesday, about three months in advance,

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I scheduled a mom's day off. This is a. yearly

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tradition that i do for myself i have invited

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other moms sometimes other moms can make it sometimes

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i can't sometimes i do it all by myself which

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might be the case when i when i take the day

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off but i like to take advantage of the last

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few weeks of school i feel this kind of ticking

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time bomb sort of yeah it's like It's not really

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impending doom per se, but it is an impending

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change of lifestyle, if that makes sense. It

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does. I am the primary caregiver and momager

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of my household. So it's a lot of responsibility.

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Three boys all of summer, all the time. And I

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just like to take these last few weeks before

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they get out of school to do one day where I

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just play hooky for the day. And I just go do

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whatever I want to do for the day. So that's

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what I'm doing on Wistful Wednesday. Do you tell

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people that you're doing this or do you just

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secretly go do it? Or what happens here? What

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are you going to do? I'll have to block it on

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my schedule. That's why we're recording this

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a day early because I need to block the schedule

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off, make sure that I don't accidentally schedule

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other things because I will. I'm just so like

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me to do that, but I make sure that people know.

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And then I invite my favorite mom friends. I'll

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like pick some mom friends I know and be like,

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Hey, I'm doing this. If it works out in your

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schedule that you could take the day off to and

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come with me. Great. So sometimes last year I

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had a group of four of us that all went together.

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It was super fun. That's fine. So, so this is

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going to be airing after this happens. So let's

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talk to future Coco. Let's talk to future Coco.

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How was your day? What did you do for your mom's

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day? Where did you go? What happened? So restful.

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I feel so invigorated. I like to ride the tracks

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just because it's fun and it's a fun way to get

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into the city. So take the tracks in. There's

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this great little cafe. I might mess up the name

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of it because I've never heard it pronounced

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out loud. But it's like Cave Cafe or Cave Cafe.

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It's a Turkish. coffee place in Salt Lake. And

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it's kind of like almost to the avenues. So old

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Victorian houses that were made into, you know,

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Airbnbs and coffee houses and things like that.

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So it's cute. Cute little artsy vibe. There's

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tarot readers like me, Reiki healers like me.

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It's my people. It's my vibe. So I'll take a

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book. I'll go order me some coffee and some baklava

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and some good pastries and treats. And I'll just

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sit. Sip my coffee. So you ride the train. You

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ride tracks up there. I have never ridden tracks.

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But I was a frequent flyer of the Hollywood Red

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Line or anything right there in L .A. because

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I used public transportation for the five years

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or so I was there. First five years. Honestly,

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I used public transportation. I would not get

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a car because I didn't have a parking place in

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my apartment. And I was not going to fight Hollywood

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parking on the street every night. So I rode

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the buses and trains. It was wild. So I need

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to ride tracks. I should ride tracks. I got an

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idea. I got an idea. What if me and you ride

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tracks together and record an episode and we

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do the movie Snowpiercer? Now, I know you may

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not know what that is, but it just clicked in

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my head. That would be the movie we should talk

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about while riding a train to downtown Salt Lake.

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I think that'd be fun. What do you think? We

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should do it? Absolutely. We'd be the coolest

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people on the train. I mean, are you kidding?

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There'd be like people riding it up to the U

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to go to school. There's college kids ride it

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all the time. It goes straight. The red line

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goes straight from here where we live in our

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neighborhood to. to the U all the way on the

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other side. So I see a lot of, and then you'd

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be like, so jealous of us. Like, excuse me, guys,

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we're podcasting over here. Okay. Yeah. Now I

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took you to the subway in Hollywood. Wow. Right.

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We wrote the, we wrote the, um, Hollywood and

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Vine, the red line, the red line. Yeah. I, I

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mean, I've ridden the underground in London,

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super proud of myself. I'm one of those people

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who's actually terrified of public transportation.

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Not because I think like there's weirdos on the

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train or like any of that kind of stuff. I'm

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not worried about that. I am terrified of getting

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lost. I'm terrified of my own incompetence and

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not being able to figure out that I got on the

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right train, going the right direction to get

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me where I need to go. So we don't have like

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as much of an intricate system as some of the

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big cities like LA, London, you know. Salt Lake

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has kind of their simpler. Yeah. From what I've

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seen, it's nice. It's really nice here. So, yeah,

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we're going to put that on the docket that we're

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going to watch Snowpiercer, the movie. There's

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a TV series that came out, too. And this this

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movie is wild. Yeah, I'm not going to tell you

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what it's all about, but we'll get to that. But

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right now, Wistful Wednesday, Rosemary's Baby.

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I want to speak on this right off the top. Roman

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Polanski, director. This is one of those situations

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where and you can come at me. You can. Debate

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with us. You can join the conversation, freaks,

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but can you separate art with the artist? Because

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Roman Polanski is a piece of shit. He evaded

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the U .S. to, or he left the U .S. to evade a

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statutory rape trial, and he's still been there.

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Lots of stuff going on. Lots of people have certain

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feelings about all that, but I can't just glance

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over that and not say anything. Especially...

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especially with some of the content that's in

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this movie that we see. And it's like, huh? All

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right. Well, I saw the inspiration for what he,

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you know, so it's, it's, it's disgusting. What's

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what, what happened there? And like I said, there's,

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it's, it's been a while. He's been there since

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1978. So this is what that's 48 years. I think

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my math is close. 50 ish, close to 50 years.

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I can only hope, even though he evaded punishment

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here, that perhaps he's. not continuing the same

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behavior over there and then hasn't, or maybe

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he doesn't get caught again. I don't know, but

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it's, it's always been a thing too. Can we separate

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the art from the artist? Because we go through

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that in music too. We see that with people like

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Kanye West. Yay. Now, you know, he was hailing

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Hitler at one point. And then, yeah. How do you

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still listen? R Kelly was another one, you know,

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he's off in prison now. Do you still appreciate

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his music? Those are a little bit different to

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me because Roman Polanski making a movie, the

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art isn't just his. You got all these other people

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in this that you've got to give some respect

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to. And I want them, I want the Mia Farrow, I

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want, you know, these people to be put on a pedestal

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above him because without them, this movie, I

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don't care. It wouldn't have happened. It wouldn't

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have been what it ended up being. Now that I

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got that past, you know, like, I don't want to

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talk anymore about Roman Polanski. No more about

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that. We'll talk just about Rosemary's Baby,

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the incredible performance from Mia Farrow, and

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everybody else involved. I mean, we talk about

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cast chemistry all the time, and cast alchemy

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is one phrase I found, I came up with yesterday,

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remember? This one was cast alchemy complete.

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Like John Cassavetes as Guy Woodhouse, Mia Farrow,

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Ruth Gordon, Sidney Blackburn, Ralph Bellamy,

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Maurice Evans. You can keep going down this list.

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And these were heavy hitters for every, every

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scene. This movie doesn't have a scene where

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you can just kind of kick back and relax. It's

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not going to happen. The entire thing. You got

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a whole character with the apartment building

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that they're in themselves. Like there's so much

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going on and so many layers to this movie. I

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watched this movie twice last night and still

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saw different stuff. You know, I did. I watched

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it back to back last night. So yeah, go ahead

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and give me off the top Coco, because this was

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your first watch. What did you think? So much,

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so much going on here. Let's start with the very

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beginning. Let's start with the apartment itself.

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Like architecture, history. This is something

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we live in the Western United States. So a lot

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of the old buildings we see here and even some

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of them are getting demolished and replaced quickly.

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There may be a hundred years old. But one of

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the things you find when you leave the West and

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you go to the like New York, for example, or

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if you. go across the pond to a european country

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and you go people are living in 400 year old

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houses and buildings like it's insane to me and

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i love seeing the architecture as they walk you

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through the building and they walk you through

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the apartment One thing you'll notice is how

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compartmentalized the floor plans were at a certain

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time. I like architecture, so this is just like

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my nerdiness coming out. But, you know, nowadays

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we're all about the open concept and the flow.

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And, you know, it's interesting to me that they

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had like a nice, big, open living room that you

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had to get through this hallway to. You've got

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this gorgeous fireplace, even after they paint

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it, and it's all white. It's so pretty. But it's

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right across the hall from their bedroom. That's

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not something you would typically see because

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it was like the private chambers are right there

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across from the public area of the house where

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you bring guests. So that's just like first impressions.

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I just loved that the apartment being a cast

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member was. part of that experience of like what's

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going on yeah and how about that opening the

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the cinematography on the opening right there

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with a la la la la la that music that eerie kind

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of yet settling music it's unsettling and settling

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at the same time but we if you notice the cinematography

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there we kind of come floating in you come floating

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into that building like it's something that got

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into the building And you're already kind of

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feeling like, man, something's kind of off. But

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I do love the architecture. Let's get into Gaslighting.

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Because that is what this movie is. Oh, my God.

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Guy Woodhouse in Gaslighting makes him the villain

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of this movie. Played by John Cassavetes beautifully,

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by the way. 100 % the villain. Honestly, he might

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be the real villain of this place even before

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the demon with the yellow eyes pops up. And he's

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a struggling actor, which already probably got

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a chip on his shoulder. Let's just be real. He's

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doing commercials. Self -centered, you know,

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knows how to put on an act when he needs to.

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I mean, there's a lot of red flags. Yeah, I mean,

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he's doing commercials and tasting the dirt of

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rejection. He's ravenous for success. Will do

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anything for success. And then his main rival

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suddenly mysteriously goes blind. Already tipping

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off to the viewer. Hmm, what's going on? And

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then boom, guy gets the part. It's the ultimate

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Hollywood hustle taken to the most literal demonic

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extreme. What makes this movie... Itch under

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your skin 50 plus years later, because this thing

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came out in 1968, which is wild on its own to

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think that something like this came out. This

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was disturbing, you know, but 50 years later,

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it gets under our skin still because it's not

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the supernatural stuff. It's the human betrayal.

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You know, it's that because that stings when

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we see this. We see her. We know what she's going

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through. And you got so many people around her

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gaslighting her. Telling her it's okay. Uh -oh.

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There's the FedEx package. Got the package. It

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only took two days. No, we already went through

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that. We don't have to. You can finally shower.

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I can take a shower now. No, we're still filming

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this today. But I was talking about. Yeah, I

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was talking about the gaslighting. Yes. Nowhere

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to turn. That feeling that Mia Farrow's character

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would... By the way, I just want to give some

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accolades to Mia Farrow. What an amazing performance.

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I mean, that is what makes this movie what it

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is. It really reminds me of Shelley Duvall in

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The Shining. Is it Shelley Duvall? She's got

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that same kind of almost... I don't want to say

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homely because I hate using that kind of stuff.

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No, but desperate. Desperate. Desperate. Yeah,

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but she gave me that. She gave me the Shelly.

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And Shelly Duvall's performance came after this.

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So she may have taken a lot of inspiration from

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Mia Farrow's performance in Rosemary's Baby.

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But I did notice it. But go ahead on Mia Farrow

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and what she was doing because incredible. Yeah,

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the emotions. Oh, just feel for her. But like

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the feeling that she starts to get where everything

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feels like the walls are closing in and she has

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nowhere to turn. No one to help her. It's so

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sad that that, you know, comes with this horror

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movie aspect of like what supernatural things

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are happening to her in the movie. That it's

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actually really relatable. It's actually really

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relatable to a lot of women and a lot of circumstances

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where. You get yourself into a place where there's

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just nowhere to turn for help. You're trying

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to find safety. You're trying to find someone

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who will believe you. I'm not crazy. I know what

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I see. I know what I feel. And everywhere you

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turn, even Dr. Hill betrays her. What? Come on.

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I'm just devastated for her. it also feels like

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a sort of familiar feeling. Not that I've been

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in a place that dire in my life, but just as

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a woman, I think we carry a sort of generational

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trauma inside of ourselves that understands this

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kind of, there's nowhere safe for you to be.

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You're under the thumb of these, I don't know,

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men, I guess. Yeah, but I think there's a real

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parallel. Like, I think there's a corporate parallel

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to this. You know, like the fact that Guy Woodhouse

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trades his wife's autonomy for a Broadway deal.

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Just like that. Sold his soul and his wife and

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his child. I mean, that's an ultimate casting

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couch horror story right there, wrapped up in

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a velvet coven robe. You know, like, it's...

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I've been in corporate and media long enough

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to know that there are some serious occult vibes

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that are in parts of it. And it may not be, you

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know, a chalice, a tennis root or whatever they

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were wearing. You know, sometimes you just need

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a middle management title and a corporate credit

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card. And it's the same thing. Yeah. You know,

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I just. Right. Somebody is in charge and somebody

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needs their worship. Which which brings me up

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to ask the question to you, to the freaks. Like

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when in your career have you realized that the

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price of admission or when in life have you realized

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that the price of admission is just a little

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too high? You know, like that's what. I look

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at, in Guy Woodhouse's case, that price of admission

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was a little too high for what you, you know,

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gave. So, yeah, but I just, I could see that.

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Let's talk about Roman and Minnie. Yes, let's.

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My favorite character and actress in this entire

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movie, though, of course, Mia Farrow did a great

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job, you know, nothing against that, but Gordon

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playing Minnie. My favorite. Hands down. She

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won an Oscar deservedly for this role right here.

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I didn't even know that. Yeah, she did. I mean,

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you can double check me out there. Freaks make

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sure. I think I'm just... I remember, I believe

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she did win an Oscar. But these people are the...

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ultimate personification of the smothering community

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they look eccentric colorful high society grandparents

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you know like it's like they they're putting

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off a facade basically because they're running

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a whole lot tighter ship than they seem to to

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portray you know so right off the bat though

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you kind of you kind of love them right i do

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i i would love being neighbors with them honestly

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I mean, they kind of give off just this, yeah,

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maybe a little overbearing. I mean, you can see

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it when she's settling in to rest and be at home

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for the evening and read a book. And all of a

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sudden they're at her door and they're like,

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can we come in? You know, and you kind of were

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like, well, sometimes I just want to be alone.

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But I mean, you have neighbors that feel that

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comfortable and are there to like care for you

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and invite you to dinner. Her natural way of

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speaking to Rosemary, the way she just, you know,

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oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, it's fine. It's fine. I'll

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talk to you later. Okay. Well, we'll see you

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on the other side. And this is my impression

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of Minnie. I don't know if it's good, but this

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is what I'm doing. So I would love to be in your,

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oh, sweetheart, you're looking great. You look

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so thin. You know, all the things. I just, I

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just fell in love with her. And I could see why

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you would. Invite her into your life and want

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her to be around and help you pick colors for

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your nursery, right? Let's be completely honest.

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If a neighbor like her, well, first of all, if

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they hand you a Lucky Charm that smells like

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a dumpster behind a seafood restaurant, you're

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probably going to toss that bastard into the

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river. But Rosemary being polite, isolated, that's

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the big one. She's isolated. And that's what

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they prey on. Yeah. You know, like, but if we

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had neighbors like that. I'd be welcoming at

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first. That's how I am. But when you start showing

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up at my door and I'm trying to have me time,

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I'm going to say no. I'm going to say, no, you're

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not coming in right now. Sorry. Yeah. Yeah. Boundaries,

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people. This is a good lesson. And boundaries

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are okay. Boundaries are loving. Boundaries are

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kind. And people who respect your boundaries

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are people who love and honor you. Yeah, it should

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have been less people pleasing and more boundary

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holding, I think, maybe would have saved Rosemary

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quite a lot. Let's get into the real horror of

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this movie. And we've kind of touched on it already.

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And it's the fear of not being believed. That,

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to me, is the emotional core of this movie. It

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hits a whole lot different depending on where

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you are in life. Rosemary knows something is

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deeply, inherently wrong. Her body's telling

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her. Instincts are screaming at her. It's a woman's

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intuition, once again. You go in, you tell the

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doctor what's wrong, and they say, no, no, no,

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no, no, no. You got this. Take some Tylenol.

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And you end up with exactly what you said was

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wrong. So it happens all the time. And she's

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losing it. Believe yourself. Believe your gut.

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Believe your intuition. Follow it. Usually if

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you've got an impression or feeling about something,

00:22:03.680 --> 00:22:08.539
you are almost always right. Exactly. Like her

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body telling her, you know, it's screaming at

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her. She's losing weight. She's pregnant. How

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do you lose weight when you're pregnant? You're

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not supposed to. She's in excruciating pain.

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She's eating raw meat straight from the butcher

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paper. Like, come on. Something's not right.

00:22:23.440 --> 00:22:28.099
You know, like. You feel for her. Don't get me

00:22:28.099 --> 00:22:31.279
wrong, guys. The first trimester in pregnancy,

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and sometimes for a lot of people the whole time

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through, the sickness and the morning sickness

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and the things that you go through, I mean, it

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can be a crazy wild ride in a normal pregnancy.

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So I kind of get the feeling she was trying to

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write it off. Like, well, it's normal. I mean,

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it's... You know, my doctors are telling me it's

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OK. And, you know, it's her first time being

00:22:56.619 --> 00:22:58.259
pregnant. How would she know any different? Right.

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I mean, you got to give her credit for I think

00:23:00.880 --> 00:23:02.680
most women would be in that same boat. They would

00:23:02.680 --> 00:23:04.700
be like, yeah, but it's normal to lose a little

00:23:04.700 --> 00:23:06.319
bit of weight at first because you're sick a

00:23:06.319 --> 00:23:09.660
lot. And then I'll gain weight later. And she

00:23:09.660 --> 00:23:12.859
didn't know any better. Exactly. And every single

00:23:12.859 --> 00:23:15.940
man in her life, her husband, her prestigious

00:23:15.940 --> 00:23:19.299
doctor, the system tells her she's just being

00:23:19.299 --> 00:23:23.960
a hysterical pregnant woman, completely invalidating

00:23:23.960 --> 00:23:26.259
her reality. She knows what's going on. They

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dial down her volume until she sounds like static

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in the radio and they don't want to hear it.

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It's just all of her autonomy. They take away

00:23:34.400 --> 00:23:38.150
all respect for her. And by the way. I mean,

00:23:38.150 --> 00:23:40.890
it shouldn't just be pregnant women, but in general,

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if you're ever wondering how to treat a woman,

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if anyone out there is wondering, like, what

00:23:47.450 --> 00:23:52.710
is the right way? Generally speaking, to be nurtured

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and cared for and treated with a certain level

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of respect is so wonderful. Like when you're

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pregnant, you want people to treat you like.

00:24:00.890 --> 00:24:02.990
You're growing life inside of you. We got to

00:24:02.990 --> 00:24:04.829
take care of you. Let's make sure you're eating.

00:24:05.009 --> 00:24:07.289
Let's make sure you're sleeping. That's all fine.

00:24:07.430 --> 00:24:10.809
That's all great. But to act like, oh, you don't

00:24:10.809 --> 00:24:14.029
know what you're talking about. You just be quiet.

00:24:14.250 --> 00:24:16.809
Oh, you can't have that. You can't eat that.

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You can't do that. And then to like lock it down,

00:24:19.670 --> 00:24:24.289
like having them in charge of you. Yes. And that's

00:24:24.289 --> 00:24:28.970
what I'm saying right there is they are in charge

00:24:28.970 --> 00:24:32.599
enough to where. You are sitting there speaking

00:24:32.599 --> 00:24:36.960
truth. That scene where they're all in the room,

00:24:37.000 --> 00:24:40.960
basically, and she, Rosemary, is speaking nothing

00:24:40.960 --> 00:24:44.299
but the truth. And they are all standing there

00:24:44.299 --> 00:24:46.799
around looking at her saying, no, no, no, no,

00:24:46.799 --> 00:24:49.980
no, no. That's terrifying. When you are trapped

00:24:49.980 --> 00:24:53.680
in a single room. And you can't do anything about

00:24:53.680 --> 00:24:56.480
that. That to me is the psychological isolation,

00:24:56.700 --> 00:24:59.980
not just isolated physically. Now you've got

00:24:59.980 --> 00:25:04.359
the psychological part and you know, it's who's

00:25:04.359 --> 00:25:07.480
opening and holding the door open for the monster.

00:25:08.039 --> 00:25:11.420
At that point, you got it open. You got the door

00:25:11.420 --> 00:25:13.299
open for that psychological trauma to come in

00:25:13.299 --> 00:25:14.980
and it's going to happen. Then you've got the

00:25:14.980 --> 00:25:17.759
supernatural stuff going on too. So yeah, but

00:25:17.759 --> 00:25:21.660
you, this, this to me. That's what's terrifying

00:25:21.660 --> 00:25:23.680
to me. It's like me sitting here saying, oh,

00:25:23.740 --> 00:25:26.380
the sky is blue. And somebody else telling you,

00:25:26.400 --> 00:25:27.759
looking you dead in the eye saying, no, no, no,

00:25:27.779 --> 00:25:30.460
no, no, no. And a bunch of people doing that

00:25:30.460 --> 00:25:33.539
to you to where you feel crazy. That's scary.

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There's a couple of little examples, like little

00:25:36.559 --> 00:25:40.019
microaggressions that you see. One that I remember

00:25:40.019 --> 00:25:41.920
was when they're fighting after the party and

00:25:41.920 --> 00:25:44.640
she's like, I'm not going to go see Dr. Saperstein

00:25:44.640 --> 00:25:47.380
anymore. I'm not taking those shakes that. those

00:25:47.380 --> 00:25:52.200
drinks. I'm not doing it. I got to find another,

00:25:52.279 --> 00:25:54.019
I got to get a second opinion. I got to get a

00:25:54.019 --> 00:25:57.859
second opinion. And he says, how's that going

00:25:57.859 --> 00:26:00.700
to make the doctor feel? Or he says something

00:26:00.700 --> 00:26:02.640
like along the lines of like, well, your hurt

00:26:02.640 --> 00:26:05.359
is feelings or how is he supposed to feel about

00:26:05.359 --> 00:26:08.519
that? And she's like, what do you mean? How is

00:26:08.519 --> 00:26:11.819
he supposed to feel? I remember like that scene

00:26:11.819 --> 00:26:16.059
being so like, oh my gosh. She's actually being

00:26:16.059 --> 00:26:21.420
expected to put some doctor's feelings ahead

00:26:21.420 --> 00:26:25.740
of how she is being cared for as the pregnant

00:26:25.740 --> 00:26:29.319
woman who's supposed to be cared for. And then

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the other one was when she was looking for the

00:26:31.019 --> 00:26:35.779
book and she had gotten her friend's book and

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it had given her clues about what was going on

00:26:37.839 --> 00:26:39.940
and she was looking for it and she's like, where's

00:26:39.940 --> 00:26:42.119
my book? And the husband's like, oh, he got rid

00:26:42.119 --> 00:26:44.829
of it. She's like, what do you mean? That was

00:26:44.829 --> 00:26:47.210
my – he gave it to me. That meant something to

00:26:47.210 --> 00:26:50.190
me. And he was like, it was upsetting you. And

00:26:50.190 --> 00:26:53.410
I just – like these little moments, I hope people

00:26:53.410 --> 00:26:56.730
watch this movie or see moments like that. If

00:26:56.730 --> 00:26:59.650
they're dating someone, these little things happen

00:26:59.650 --> 00:27:02.170
like that. They're little micro things. They

00:27:02.170 --> 00:27:04.329
might be easy to write off and be like, oh, they

00:27:04.329 --> 00:27:06.089
just weren't thinking or they're just being selfish

00:27:06.089 --> 00:27:10.250
in that moment or they were – You know, whatever.

00:27:10.430 --> 00:27:13.650
It was a momentary lapse in judgment. If you're

00:27:13.650 --> 00:27:16.190
seeing that kind of dynamic happening in a relationship

00:27:16.190 --> 00:27:20.069
with someone, red flags. Just run the other direction.

00:27:20.309 --> 00:27:23.809
It's a good rule of thumb. Absolutely. And there

00:27:23.809 --> 00:27:27.349
are so many instances of that that happen in

00:27:27.349 --> 00:27:30.670
this movie. Even when, let's talk about it, when

00:27:30.670 --> 00:27:34.549
he rapes her, that is a hard, hard, hard scene

00:27:34.549 --> 00:27:38.769
to watch. And when they're done and he's like,

00:27:40.249 --> 00:27:43.269
Oh, it's, it's, it's disgusting, but he's basically

00:27:43.269 --> 00:27:46.970
saying, oh, it's okay. No, it's not. Yeah. He's

00:27:46.970 --> 00:27:48.410
like, well, I didn't want to miss baby night.

00:27:48.490 --> 00:27:51.029
So you were passed out anyway. And it was kind

00:27:51.029 --> 00:27:53.029
of, you know, he kind of alludes to the fact

00:27:53.029 --> 00:27:55.809
that it was a little exciting for him. Yeah.

00:27:55.809 --> 00:28:00.450
That is not okay. And I was like, hell no. And

00:28:00.450 --> 00:28:03.529
he plays it off so nonchalantly, like it's just

00:28:03.529 --> 00:28:07.279
okay. And I'm like, I'm. If you sit – if anybody

00:28:07.279 --> 00:28:09.160
out there, man, woman, whatever, if you watch

00:28:09.160 --> 00:28:12.140
that scene right there and you feel okay, you

00:28:12.140 --> 00:28:15.660
need to get some help. Yeah. The big tool here

00:28:15.660 --> 00:28:20.940
is that being married, the woman's life and body

00:28:20.940 --> 00:28:24.779
are his property. And that is – again, it's not

00:28:24.779 --> 00:28:27.460
explicitly said. It's just implied in that kind

00:28:27.460 --> 00:28:30.140
of behavior. And that's something that I would

00:28:30.140 --> 00:28:34.019
like to think we've evolved. For some people,

00:28:34.039 --> 00:28:37.160
not so much. So I feel like this is a great time

00:28:37.160 --> 00:28:40.759
to just highlight that and say like, hey, that

00:28:40.759 --> 00:28:45.220
sort of culture, that sort of underlying belief

00:28:45.220 --> 00:28:47.960
system that we maybe have had in the past, it's

00:28:47.960 --> 00:28:50.480
dead now and we need to move on from that and

00:28:50.480 --> 00:28:54.180
call it out for what it is. Yeah, I'm going to

00:28:54.180 --> 00:28:55.779
tell you right now, watching that scene, it is

00:28:55.779 --> 00:28:59.319
not okay. Yeah, it feels very icky and triggering

00:28:59.319 --> 00:29:01.779
probably for a lot of women. I'm sure. I'm sure.

00:29:01.779 --> 00:29:07.089
It should. Everybody should feel icky watching

00:29:07.089 --> 00:29:11.230
that scene. And then that scene, it's early in

00:29:11.230 --> 00:29:13.950
the movie, but it leads to the climax of the

00:29:13.950 --> 00:29:19.349
movie. And we get to that famous or infamous

00:29:19.349 --> 00:29:24.210
final sequence where at this point, Rosemary,

00:29:24.250 --> 00:29:27.410
she finds the hidden door. She walks into this

00:29:27.410 --> 00:29:30.430
parlor and there's the black cradle. She's hearing

00:29:30.430 --> 00:29:32.470
a baby crying, and they're giving her lies about

00:29:32.470 --> 00:29:34.109
that. They're saying, oh, somebody else moved

00:29:34.109 --> 00:29:37.509
in. Yeah, she figures it out. Yeah, but that's

00:29:37.509 --> 00:29:39.990
the thing. That's also the thing, too. When she

00:29:39.990 --> 00:29:42.509
goes through that spill, and she lays out every

00:29:42.509 --> 00:29:45.410
single thing that has happened and has been done,

00:29:45.589 --> 00:29:50.109
and it's none of this, well, I think this happened.

00:29:50.309 --> 00:29:53.829
And she says it factually. That's where you know

00:29:53.829 --> 00:29:58.160
she knows. And it hits, and it's like. Oh, my

00:29:58.160 --> 00:30:02.599
God. Like, what now? Yeah. And when she's in

00:30:02.599 --> 00:30:07.000
there and she looks at the baby, I love this

00:30:07.000 --> 00:30:09.480
right here will stick with me forever. And she

00:30:09.480 --> 00:30:13.539
says, what have you done to its eyes? Roman says

00:30:13.539 --> 00:30:16.660
the line that seals the entire narrative. He

00:30:16.660 --> 00:30:20.599
has his father's eyes. And that one sticks. It's

00:30:20.599 --> 00:30:24.059
like, oh, God, that's so deep. Do you know what

00:30:24.059 --> 00:30:27.799
I love about that moment? What I love about it,

00:30:27.839 --> 00:30:30.200
and you know because we've covered a lot of horror

00:30:30.200 --> 00:30:34.259
movies, is that they never show the baby. And

00:30:34.259 --> 00:30:38.119
they don't have to. Because the image in your

00:30:38.119 --> 00:30:41.759
mind is far more powerful. And this is what I

00:30:41.759 --> 00:30:43.400
believe about horror movies in general. You know

00:30:43.400 --> 00:30:46.720
this about me. I think that when they don't show

00:30:46.720 --> 00:30:52.019
the things, the full horror of it all, the monster,

00:30:52.099 --> 00:30:54.960
the entity, whatever it might be. In this case,

00:30:54.980 --> 00:30:58.359
it was the baby. I mean, it's like she thought

00:30:58.359 --> 00:31:00.680
maybe her baby was in danger, that it was going

00:31:00.680 --> 00:31:03.079
to be sacrificed to the witches because of what

00:31:03.079 --> 00:31:05.299
she'd read about them and eating babies, which

00:31:05.299 --> 00:31:08.980
I'm going to get to in a second. But that she

00:31:08.980 --> 00:31:12.700
looks and all you see is her reaction to the

00:31:12.700 --> 00:31:16.259
baby. Fantastic. That's the twist. That's the

00:31:16.259 --> 00:31:19.500
big twist here in this whole movie that makes

00:31:19.500 --> 00:31:24.420
this a masterpiece instead of just a... supernatural

00:31:24.420 --> 00:31:28.559
monster flick she doesn't reject it the maternal

00:31:28.559 --> 00:31:32.059
instinct kicks in the human need to protect what

00:31:32.059 --> 00:31:36.480
is hers kicks in and overrides the sheer cosmic

00:31:36.480 --> 00:31:39.880
horror of what she's looking at she starts to

00:31:39.880 --> 00:31:43.660
rock the damn cradle are you serious yeah you

00:31:43.660 --> 00:31:46.819
know like that it's dark it's beautifully dark

00:31:46.819 --> 00:31:50.980
deeply twisted Yeah, it does. You see this moment

00:31:50.980 --> 00:31:53.779
and I knew it was so pivotal. It was going to

00:31:53.779 --> 00:31:55.920
be a pivotal moment in that is she's sitting

00:31:55.920 --> 00:31:58.819
down. Um, Minnie brings her a cup of tea and

00:31:58.819 --> 00:32:01.640
she's like with Tannis root. Like, I love that

00:32:01.640 --> 00:32:04.099
part where she's like, okay. And she's like,

00:32:04.140 --> 00:32:06.259
no, it's just Lipton's tea, darling. Just drink

00:32:06.259 --> 00:32:08.779
it. Whatever. You know, I love that part, but

00:32:08.779 --> 00:32:11.000
she's sitting there and you see her look over

00:32:11.000 --> 00:32:13.299
at the baby and you see them rocking the baby

00:32:13.299 --> 00:32:16.140
and you see this decision happening. This is

00:32:16.140 --> 00:32:21.200
Mia Farrow's like acting subtext skills. It's

00:32:21.200 --> 00:32:23.700
fantastic. She's just, this moment of decision

00:32:23.700 --> 00:32:28.150
is happening where she's like. she could and

00:32:28.150 --> 00:32:30.230
then this is me watching for the very first time

00:32:30.230 --> 00:32:32.690
i'm like she's either gonna pick up the dagger

00:32:32.690 --> 00:32:37.769
and stab the baby with it which is very catholic

00:32:37.769 --> 00:32:43.170
god -fearing woman right or what she ends up

00:32:43.170 --> 00:32:46.490
doing is making the decision that this isn't

00:32:46.490 --> 00:32:49.950
what i wanted but that's my baby one way or another

00:32:49.950 --> 00:32:54.420
that's my child and that's But you see that decision

00:32:54.420 --> 00:32:56.559
happening in her face as she walks over and is

00:32:56.559 --> 00:33:03.140
like, you're rocking him too fast. Yep. Yep.

00:33:03.299 --> 00:33:07.180
What a movie. I want to hear the witch stuff

00:33:07.180 --> 00:33:09.460
from that book. Is that some real stuff? Tell

00:33:09.460 --> 00:33:11.839
me about that. Let's get into that. I have to

00:33:11.839 --> 00:33:14.819
address that because I was almost shocked as

00:33:14.819 --> 00:33:16.579
I watched this movie. Like, I didn't know this

00:33:16.579 --> 00:33:19.200
was a witch movie. We didn't cover this in the

00:33:19.200 --> 00:33:21.799
witch movie project. And we totally could have.

00:33:22.079 --> 00:33:26.940
Yeah. You touch on the witch aspect of this movie

00:33:26.940 --> 00:33:30.640
clearly. Like, this is still in an era of propaganda

00:33:30.640 --> 00:33:36.000
where we believed witches are satanic and witches

00:33:36.000 --> 00:33:38.559
were coinciding with each other. Like, we believed

00:33:38.559 --> 00:33:41.440
that they were all the same thing. And I have

00:33:41.440 --> 00:33:45.400
worked very hard to put it out there that that

00:33:45.400 --> 00:33:49.940
is not true. That's not what that is. Do I believe

00:33:49.940 --> 00:33:52.529
that there may be witches that are satanic? Probably.

00:33:52.890 --> 00:33:55.289
Like, you know, maybe. But that doesn't mean

00:33:55.289 --> 00:33:58.650
the same thing. They don't coincide. So I just

00:33:58.650 --> 00:34:01.329
have to put it out there that Tannis Root was

00:34:01.329 --> 00:34:03.490
mentioned many times in the movie. It was fictional.

00:34:03.650 --> 00:34:05.710
There's no such thing as Tannis Root. They believe

00:34:05.710 --> 00:34:08.449
it may have been like an acronym, a pseudo acronym

00:34:08.449 --> 00:34:13.030
for Satan or, you know, maybe associated with

00:34:13.030 --> 00:34:17.369
that. But Tannis Root is not a real thing. I

00:34:17.369 --> 00:34:19.730
would imagine that if something was. an herb

00:34:19.730 --> 00:34:21.889
or something that had healing properties, it

00:34:21.889 --> 00:34:25.610
would smell good because your body would not

00:34:25.610 --> 00:34:29.070
be rejecting it. It would be accepting it. So

00:34:29.070 --> 00:34:33.449
that to consider, but these witches essentially

00:34:33.449 --> 00:34:37.690
start out to be exactly what the, the etymology

00:34:37.690 --> 00:34:40.130
of the word, which is coming from Wicca, which

00:34:40.130 --> 00:34:45.599
means wise person. They have herbs growing all

00:34:45.599 --> 00:34:48.760
in their houses. She's making an herbal tincture

00:34:48.760 --> 00:34:51.199
or herbal drink for her to support her pregnancy.

00:34:51.300 --> 00:34:54.380
I mean, this starts out to be very much like

00:34:54.380 --> 00:34:59.519
what witch would be. It's only the association

00:34:59.519 --> 00:35:06.260
with evil and devil and antichrist and Satan's

00:35:06.260 --> 00:35:10.760
child. satan worship and hail satan at the end

00:35:10.760 --> 00:35:13.679
when they're doing the it's all that that i think

00:35:13.679 --> 00:35:17.039
is is we need to put the kibosh on when it comes

00:35:17.039 --> 00:35:20.579
to our our image right i thought that that scene

00:35:20.579 --> 00:35:22.079
where they're doing all the hail satan stuff

00:35:22.079 --> 00:35:23.559
i was like you know what this looks like a good

00:35:23.559 --> 00:35:26.260
time minus the baby you know and all i was like

00:35:26.260 --> 00:35:28.519
this is not a bad party i was yeah i was all

00:35:28.519 --> 00:35:33.659
for it so you know nice place satanists and church

00:35:33.659 --> 00:35:35.920
of satan they're doing some um amazing charity

00:35:35.920 --> 00:35:39.920
work in our in our um world so the satanic temple

00:35:39.920 --> 00:35:43.599
let's get it right the satanic temple because

00:35:43.599 --> 00:35:45.519
i am a member i'm gonna tell you that now i remember

00:35:45.519 --> 00:35:49.519
the satanic temple is the one yep you go look

00:35:49.519 --> 00:35:52.699
into that and you'll see that that's not the

00:35:52.699 --> 00:35:57.199
hell satan one as much as the fuck the man as

00:35:57.199 --> 00:36:00.539
much because right right yes go look into that

00:36:00.539 --> 00:36:02.579
i think our freaks would appreciate the satanic

00:36:02.579 --> 00:36:06.650
temple um i actually have a hoodie I bought a

00:36:06.650 --> 00:36:09.150
hoodie once, and it says, Hail Satan. It's in

00:36:09.150 --> 00:36:11.409
all black. I got it from them, and part of the

00:36:11.409 --> 00:36:14.610
money went to fund an abortion clinic or something

00:36:14.610 --> 00:36:18.309
in Texas, I think, was what it was. So, you know,

00:36:18.369 --> 00:36:20.789
not getting too political. So there's a lot of

00:36:20.789 --> 00:36:22.989
elements of that that we could go into that are

00:36:22.989 --> 00:36:25.690
not quite depicted in a horror film that's meant

00:36:25.690 --> 00:36:28.730
to scare God -fearing people that maybe were

00:36:28.730 --> 00:36:32.130
Catholic or brought up Catholic and made to fear

00:36:32.130 --> 00:36:35.130
that, right? There's obviously been a lot of...

00:36:35.420 --> 00:36:37.900
A lot of centuries behind the propaganda of,

00:36:37.920 --> 00:36:40.420
like, fear the devil and fear the demons and

00:36:40.420 --> 00:36:43.320
then this and this and the saints and the crosses

00:36:43.320 --> 00:36:46.000
and the crucifix and the blah, blah, blah. So

00:36:46.000 --> 00:36:49.599
I don't necessarily love the association of witches

00:36:49.599 --> 00:36:54.059
with that side of it in this movie because the

00:36:54.059 --> 00:36:59.329
myth of eating children that witches had. came

00:36:59.329 --> 00:37:03.869
from them being – assisting in abortions and

00:37:03.869 --> 00:37:07.610
assisting in women's pregnancy and women's health

00:37:07.610 --> 00:37:13.809
during many, many times in our history when they've

00:37:13.809 --> 00:37:16.510
been the ones caretaking women. So they were

00:37:16.510 --> 00:37:19.369
given that bad rap because they wanted to believe

00:37:19.369 --> 00:37:21.469
that – they wanted people to believe that witches

00:37:21.469 --> 00:37:24.389
were killing babies and then like drinking their

00:37:24.389 --> 00:37:27.030
blood for eternal youth or whatever the story

00:37:27.030 --> 00:37:30.949
goes. It's not true. I think there's a great

00:37:30.949 --> 00:37:36.070
metaphor analogy in Rosemary's Baby, and it can

00:37:36.070 --> 00:37:39.690
show us that we spend, ourselves, spend so much

00:37:39.690 --> 00:37:45.130
time fighting monstrosities, abominations around

00:37:45.130 --> 00:37:48.449
us, that we do end up adopting them in a way,

00:37:48.530 --> 00:37:50.489
or nurturing them, or at least making them a

00:37:50.489 --> 00:37:53.110
part of our daily routine. Before you even know

00:37:53.110 --> 00:37:56.670
it, too, you can cut that out. Yeah, what you

00:37:56.670 --> 00:38:00.199
resist will persist. Yes, exactly. And I see

00:38:00.199 --> 00:38:02.739
that in this movie. And I see that in life. And

00:38:02.739 --> 00:38:06.920
Rosemary's Baby, I'm going to give you a recommendation

00:38:06.920 --> 00:38:11.639
of a movie to go watch now. And you probably

00:38:11.639 --> 00:38:16.159
didn't know about this. Apartment 7A on Paramount

00:38:16.159 --> 00:38:22.280
by Natalie Erica James. It's the prequel to Rosemary's

00:38:22.280 --> 00:38:24.619
Baby. And it just came out a couple years ago.

00:38:24.800 --> 00:38:29.079
It's on Paramount. Minnie's in it. Played by

00:38:29.079 --> 00:38:32.420
a different actor. Yeah. I got to see that. See

00:38:32.420 --> 00:38:34.820
if there is good. I don't know if anyone's hiring

00:38:34.820 --> 00:38:37.019
me, but I could play Minnie, the younger version

00:38:37.019 --> 00:38:39.699
of Minnie. I was thinking, I was like, you know

00:38:39.699 --> 00:38:44.679
what? Halloween this year, you would make a great

00:38:44.679 --> 00:38:48.179
Minnie. You could do that. You could do that.

00:38:48.860 --> 00:38:51.099
Oh my gosh. You got to give me some curlers and

00:38:51.099 --> 00:38:56.219
some. Yeah. And then maybe Matt could be, could

00:38:56.219 --> 00:39:00.829
go as Roman. Yeah. Yeah, yeah. And then I guess

00:39:00.829 --> 00:39:03.309
that leaves Lindsay as Rosemary and me as Gaia.

00:39:03.309 --> 00:39:04.750
I don't know about that. I don't know if I can.

00:39:06.710 --> 00:39:09.929
We're not going like that. But no, I do. I think

00:39:09.929 --> 00:39:12.369
you could make a great Manny. Give us that impression

00:39:12.369 --> 00:39:15.250
one more time. Let me hear. Oh, it's okay, darling.

00:39:15.309 --> 00:39:17.750
I'll bring you your drink a little bit later,

00:39:17.849 --> 00:39:19.530
okay? You just make sure you drink that up. You

00:39:19.530 --> 00:39:22.369
drink that drink up. You drink it right up. You

00:39:22.369 --> 00:39:24.630
sound like her. You could look like her. I think

00:39:24.630 --> 00:39:27.460
you got it, Coco. I love it. I love her. I love

00:39:27.460 --> 00:39:31.039
the New York. She just feels like so perfect.

00:39:31.860 --> 00:39:35.920
Perfect New York older lady. I don't know. But

00:39:35.920 --> 00:39:37.920
yeah, one thing we didn't talk about, and I just

00:39:37.920 --> 00:39:39.739
want to briefly mention it. I know we've gone

00:39:39.739 --> 00:39:43.800
over time, but the short haircut, right? The

00:39:43.800 --> 00:39:46.920
short haircut that Monroe gets. We just have

00:39:46.920 --> 00:39:48.980
to acknowledge the symbolism behind that and

00:39:48.980 --> 00:39:51.619
being her autonomy of like making the choice

00:39:51.619 --> 00:39:54.699
to cut her hair that short. And she thinks it's

00:39:54.699 --> 00:39:57.579
very vogue. She thinks it's really in. And the

00:39:57.579 --> 00:40:01.400
way she's treated by her husband about that haircut.

00:40:01.579 --> 00:40:04.019
Because I kept asking myself, what's the significance

00:40:04.019 --> 00:40:05.860
here? Why did they all of a sudden cut her hair?

00:40:06.000 --> 00:40:08.079
Why is that part of the story? Why does that

00:40:08.079 --> 00:40:10.320
part of the story? And I think it really was

00:40:10.320 --> 00:40:14.260
symbolic of, you know, he treating her like.

00:40:14.800 --> 00:40:16.219
The only thing that's wrong with you is that

00:40:16.219 --> 00:40:19.880
ugly haircut that you got. And, you know, I was

00:40:19.880 --> 00:40:25.019
like, bastard. Yeah. Yeah. Gotta say it. As we

00:40:25.019 --> 00:40:27.760
wrap up this episode, for the freaks out there,

00:40:27.880 --> 00:40:30.760
I want you to look at things you're currently

00:40:30.760 --> 00:40:34.099
nurturing in your life. Are you feeling something

00:40:34.099 --> 00:40:38.119
that elevates you? Or are you rocking a cradle

00:40:38.119 --> 00:40:40.260
for a coven that doesn't have your best interest

00:40:40.260 --> 00:40:43.619
at heart? Think about it. Really. And I don't

00:40:43.619 --> 00:40:46.840
mean, are you part of, Coco's coven. Coco's coven.

00:40:46.840 --> 00:40:49.440
That's got a nice ring to it. Yeah, if I formed

00:40:49.440 --> 00:40:51.940
a coven, it would be great. I think you should.

00:40:52.039 --> 00:40:54.699
I think we could get you a coven if you want

00:40:54.699 --> 00:40:56.440
one. I mean, you go have mom's day by yourself.

00:40:56.519 --> 00:41:02.280
You could have a coven by yourself. Right? My

00:41:02.280 --> 00:41:05.219
coven's going to mom's day off. That's right.

00:41:05.900 --> 00:41:07.380
All right, that's going to wrap it up for this

00:41:07.380 --> 00:41:10.760
edition of Parallel Frequencies on Rosemary's

00:41:10.760 --> 00:41:13.260
Baby. We may have to revisit this again because

00:41:13.260 --> 00:41:14.840
it's going to be one of those that a lot of things

00:41:14.840 --> 00:41:16.880
pop up and I'm going to be like, oh, shit, forgot

00:41:16.880 --> 00:41:19.860
to talk about that. Apartment 7A, go watch the

00:41:19.860 --> 00:41:22.500
prequel. Maybe we do an episode on that one.

00:41:23.179 --> 00:41:26.219
Yeah, but this was fun. We've been looking forward

00:41:26.219 --> 00:41:28.780
to this one for a while. Parallel Frequencies,

00:41:28.860 --> 00:41:31.519
I'm just playing. She's Coco. You are the freaks

00:41:31.519 --> 00:41:32.980
and we will see you on the other side.