May 12, 2026

The Moms of TV—Who Really Raised You?

The Moms of TV—Who Really Raised You?
The Moms of TV—Who Really Raised You?
Parallel Frequencies with Just Blane and Coco
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Episode 103: The Moms of TV—Who Really Raised You?

From the high-pitched nervous laugh of Kitty Foreman to the sophisticated "look" of Claire Huxtable, the women of television were more than just characters—they were our babysitters and our blueprints for adulthood. In this episode, Just Blane and Coco break down the most influential TV matriarchs and how they shaped our understanding of family, career, and identity.

We move past the generic tropes of the "bumbling dad" and the "perfect mom" to look at the grit of Florida Evans, the honesty of Roseanne Connor, and the scientific legacy of Dana Scully. Whether it’s the "Mother of Dragons" or the "Saint of Point Place," every freak has a TV mom that feels like home.

Featuring exclusive sit-downs with Patricia Richardson (Home Improvement) and Vicki Lawrence (Mama’s Family), we get a first-hand look at the women behind the icons.

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Who raised you? Was it Kitty, Claire, Peggy,

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Peg, Morticia, Roseanne, Mama herself? Today

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we're talking about the moms of TV. I can't wait,

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Coco, because this is one of my, I think this

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episode honestly could go like six hours because

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this is one of our favorite topics right here

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is the moms of television. They really did raise

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us. Still are. Does it remind you of the cable

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guy where the TV was the babysitter? Yeah, right.

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I mean, we love our moms, but we were born and

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raised in a generation that that kind of was

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the thing, right? We were. Absolutely. And make

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sure that you stay right here because we've got

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two exclusive interviews with TV moms. Mama herself,

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Vicki Lawrence. She's she's incredible. And we've

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got Patricia Richardson from, you know, home

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improvement tool time, that whole thing. So stick

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around. This is parallel frequencies. I am just

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playing. She is Coco. You are the freaks. And

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like I said, I'm excited for today. This is a

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big one. This is a fun one. A great idea that

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you put on the docket for a tube Tuesday. Top

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tier Tuesday. This could be both. This could

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be all of it. Tributes to the moms. Yeah. Now,

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I've seen some other TV shows popping up with

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some new news lately. The Lord of the Rings show.

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Have you seen this? No. The Rings of Power on

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Amazon? Yeah. Well, I knew it was coming out,

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but what's the news? It's already been out. Oh,

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it's been out. Season three has set a premiere

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date. So that'll hype people up right there.

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Okay. It's coming out in the fall, November 11th.

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We get some new Lord of the Rings content. And

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you know, Amazon put a lot of money into that.

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So I enjoy it. I think it'll be, I don't think

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I saw season two yet. So I need to catch up though.

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Oh yeah, I've got some catch up to do for sure.

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Yeah, but were you a Lord of the Rings fan? I

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mean, the movies when they came out, I appreciate

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them. I appreciate obviously the lore and the

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fantasy. I mean, that's totally my genre. That's

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totally. Yeah. I feel that female characters

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were a little underrepresented in the franchise,

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you know, personally. But I love the association

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with Celtic and Welsh folklore that inspired

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the writing of Lord of the Rings. So I have an

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appreciation for the connection there. Well,

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there is that super cut out there of all the

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times that women were on the screen together,

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two women at one time. And I think it's like

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less than two seconds long. So, yeah, there is

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an issue. Yeah, there is an issue there. When

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they say we cut out the entire movie except for

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the two moments where Legolas and Frodo say something

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to each other or something and then it's like,

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run credits. That was it. So maybe there was

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an issue there. But I was a Lord of the Rings

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nut. I loved all the extended editions. Put it

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on. Put the marathon on. Let's roll it. That's

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how I always felt about it. The White Lotus added

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Ben Kingsley. And a couple others to season four.

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That season's shaping up to be wild. I guess

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I'll have to actually get on the White Lotus

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train finally and check out this show. Because

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I don't think it's going anywhere. And those

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are the kinds of shows I usually catch up on.

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I'm like, you know what? All right. It's making

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some noise. It's four seasons deep. Just Blaine

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better pay attention. You know? That's how it

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is. That's usually when I start getting good.

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I mean, we never claim on this show to be. all

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up and up to date on everything. There's just

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way too many shows out there to get. There are,

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we do promise that we will get around to it.

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Hey, this one right here. I just thought about,

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since we're talking about it, about TV shows

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and great and all that Netflix, Lord of the flies.

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Holy shit. Watch it. It is. It's beautiful. It's

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beautifully tragic in all the way. I mean, just

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like the book, we knew what was happening. Here's

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what's fun about this show is if you didn't read

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the book, you don't know what happens. So you're

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going to have to sit there and watch the thing.

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I'm just imagining what somebody is going to,

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how they're going to have that experience of

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not knowing what's going on and then being like,

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what is this? And then they're going to be like,

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oh, my God, I should have read this book when

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I was in school and not read it. or not just

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looked at the cliff notes. Remember cliff notes?

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Yeah. Yeah. I wasn't one of those that did, did

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a lot of that just because I was in all of the,

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um, advanced literature reading classes. Those

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were my favorite classes. So I was like, I loved

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the classes that were like a book club. Basically

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you read a book and then you went to class and

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you just like dove in and discussed every angle

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of it. I love doing that. So I was a lot. No,

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I played, I was playing sports. You were a nerd.

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Couldn't do that. Couldn't hang out with you.

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No, I'm kidding. I had a very... Yeah, I had

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a very eclectic group, though. I will tell you

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that. If anybody out there went to school with

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me, they know that. I kept a wide net. Always

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do, still do. Inclusive of everybody. That's

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what we do here. Parallel frequencies, you know?

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We love the freaks. Of all kinds. All kinds of

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freaks we love. Yeah. And once again, stick around

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to see Patricia Richardson and... Vicki Lawrence,

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mama herself. We talked to them at FanX just

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last September. And we've played Patricia's before

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when we did our home improvement special. But

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Vicki's hasn't been seen yet. I'm going to tell

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you right now, she is a wild one. So we're going

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to get to that. But let's talk about the moms

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of TV. Why do we care so much about these fictional

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parents? But like we say all the time, TV is

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the mirror. to what we see and what we do in

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real life and it's a lot going on for everybody

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so we saw these moms come up on monday tuesday

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wednesday thursday friday nights and we felt

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like they were raising us you know we felt i

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felt a sense of uh i don't know what what do

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you want to call it there's a lot of words to

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fill in there yeah a sense of connection and

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nostalgia connection And I will just say, I have

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my list here. I'm like piecing together who are

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the most influential or ones that came up to

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me. And I will tell you freaks right now, there's

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a lot more than we're going to discuss today.

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So we need to hear your favorites because this

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is our list. Like this is just our personal experiences

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here. But I have some people on my list. were

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not necessarily known for being mothers, meaning

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that they had a child on the show. But I put

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them on my list anyway, because I feel like we're

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moving into an age where Mother's Day is not

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just about who gave birth to someone, but about

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that broader overall term of mothering that's

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like raised a generation, right? So like influential.

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So I've got some on my list or maybe a little

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outside of that. No, I love that. I love that

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because I even sent a happy Mother's Day message

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to my sister -in -law, Chelsea, and she hadn't

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popped no baby out. But you believe that she

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hadn't been a mother at some point in her life.

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She's got those motherly instincts. Hell, yes,

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she does. So I shot her message, you know, so

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I'm still I'm on that frequency with you. Yeah.

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You know, I'm right there. We I don't care. I

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don't care. I don't care. But. All right. What

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did all of these moms have in common? And it

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was they were they were loving, you know, in

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their own ways. And what I loved about TV moms,

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all of them over the years is there's not really

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it's not like the TV dad had a trope. They had

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a formula. Yeah. Same bumbling idiot type guy

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that you saw. And sure, there are a lot of great

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TV dads. And I guess maybe we'll get to that

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in June when Father's Day rolls around. But the

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TV moms, it wasn't like there was a blueprint.

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They're all different. They're all quirky. They're

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all whatever in their own ways, you know. And

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they all loved hard. Yeah. And I will say. didn't

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i i got real bored and frustrated over the years

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of that trope because you know we grew up with

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marge simpson and homer right yes dynamic And

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it gets a little old where you're like, why does

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the mom or wife or matriarch have to be the one

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who holds it all together all the time? She's

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got to be the one who's got the moral compass,

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holds the emotional space for everyone, and then

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just has to kind of deal with, you know, this.

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childish immature idiot husband who usually drinks

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too much and eats too much and whatever whatever

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you know and and you see it with uh lois and

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peter and yeah there's a lot of that going on

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everywhere so i as much as i love marge simpson

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i mean classic right like we love marge simpson

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as mother but i just got real like oh come on

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you know why does she have to be the one to just

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deal with this year after year after year 30s

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plus seasons worth now she is yeah and then we

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get linda belcher so we're talking about animated

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series first i guess we're we're hitting that

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first but uh you get linda belcher and bob's

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burgers and you get oh that's that's one i can

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really get on board with because Bob is a fantastic

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husband. He works hard and you can tell how much

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he loves his wife because she gets to be goofy

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and she kind of gets to play the, like, sometimes

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she doesn't work that hard. Yeah. We're a partnership

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together. They adore each other. I love seeing

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that dynamic where we saw so many years of like,

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why is this, why is she even married to this

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guy kind of thing? Now, is this going to be,

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Oh, I got one better than you. Is this how this

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is going to go? We're just going to go back and

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forth? Because I think that I've got the blueprint

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for all TV moms. Okay. This might be controversial.

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And if I am wrong, please, freaks, tell us which

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ones should be or are the blueprints. But I think

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I know the blueprint. Okay. And it's Katie Foreman

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from That 70s Show. She's the blueprint for TV

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moms. of point place, Kitty's the glue. Yes.

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Top of my list, actually. She's, to me, top of

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my list probably also if I had to put one up

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there. But, you know, she's stressed to the breaking

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point by Red's foot -in -ass policy. You know,

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that high -pitched nervous laugh. That's the

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sound of a woman who is one burnt casserole away

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from joining a commune at any point. But she's

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so... Like I said, loving. She loved all of them

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kids. She loves the kids. She loved the kids

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who weren't even hers. And that's what, you know,

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TV mom, that's what you feel like. And you're

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not one of hers, but you feel like you are as

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a viewer. And I did. I loved her. I love Kitty

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Foreman. I love Kitty. And my husband and I are

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a little bit Kitty and Red Foreman. My husband,

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you know. he's such a likable guy. He's a lot

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more likable than Red Foreman, but he is more

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introverted and he's a little bit more like,

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would rather not be around a lot of people. I

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mean, you know, he's a bit, he, I guess in that

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way. And so it's, it's kind of like the spouse

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side of that is I make him more likable because

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I'm willing to go out and be more personable.

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So, you know, Kitty humanized Red, like it needed

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to be. Kitty has this unconditional love for

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her kids, even as she sees them as really flawed.

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She knows that Eric is kind of an idiot sometimes,

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and she knows that her daughter Lori is... Out

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there. Yeah. Let's just say out there. But yeah,

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shares the love anyway and does it with a lot

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of sense of humor. She's hardworking. She takes

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shifts as a nurse when Red's out of work. I mean,

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I could go on, but she's amazing. That 90s show

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was awesome, too, on Netflix. They brought back

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Kitty and Red, and we get to see a better side

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of Red, I think, too. I like Red. But Kitty is

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still Kitty. Give me one. Who do you got on there?

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Oh, man. So I had to start with some of the TV

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moms that I looked up to as I was watching as

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a kid. Thinking, who would I like to be like

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as a mom? Now, I'm not saying I hit the target.

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We talked about Lois from Malcolm in the Middle

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a couple weeks ago when we did a whole rewatch

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of Malcolm in the Middle. And I admitted I'm

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probably more like Lois than most of the other

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TV moms. Not – I mean, kind of unfortunately.

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Yeah. But, man, did I want to be Claire Huxtable.

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Oh, my gosh. I wanted to be – That level of sophistication

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and sass and just some of the monologues that

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she got to have on that show where she was like,

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you know, part feminist, but loving mother, wife,

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lawyer. I mean, all these things and some of

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those like where she would rant and go off. I

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wanted to be like her so bad. I'm probably not

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at all. I love the Cosby show and Claire Huxtable.

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She definitely helped raise me. I think that

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one came on right in the middle of dinner or

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something. Or maybe when dinner was getting ready

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at my house. Watched that one every night. Monday

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through Friday. Or Monday through Thursday, I

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guess. Because Friday night we got TGIF and stuff

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like that, you know. Yeah, yeah. I got one. And

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it goes back to what we said earlier about you

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don't have to actually be the mother to be a

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mom, a TV mom. How about the soul of the 90s,

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Aunt Viv from The Fresh Prince of Bel -Air? Mom

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didn't give birth to Will, but you better believe

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she took him in. And, you know, she was elegant.

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And I'm talking about the original Aunt Viv because

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they did switch them up. But she was elegant.

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Yeah, and once again, she was a professor, a

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dancer, a mother. She didn't take none of Will's

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bullshit either. And she showed us that motherhood

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doesn't mean you got to lose your identity. It

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just means you got to expand it. Because like

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I said, she got, let's just say, a child dumped

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on her. So she, he was fully grown. So yeah.

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On that responsibility and put them right into

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the fold. Absolutely. Yeah. Yeah. I love Aunt

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Viv. I loved her. And she and Claire Huxtable

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both have that like regal, quiet sovereignty

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about them. Yeah. Whereas I don't like that I'm

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a little bit more like Lois. It feels sometimes

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like I'm shouting and yelling to be heard where

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I'm like, hello, is anybody listening to me in

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this house? Where I wish I had more of that quiet.

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I would like to be able to just give my kids

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a look or a – command authority in the way that

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Aunt Viv and Claire Huxtable could do. I don't

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quite have it, but I'm working on it. We'll get

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there. My favorite movie, sorry, TV show, TV

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series, and we can't not talk about The Mother

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of Dragons. Oh, yes. Because, I mean, we're getting

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into a little bit more of a dramatic role here,

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not a sitcom, but... She lost her child. So for

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her to step into the role of saying, I will never

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be able to have a child like that, like give

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birth again, but these dragons are my children

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and they mean as much to me as children. And

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to see that dynamic play out, for those of us

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who've struggled with infertility or cannot have

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children of our own and want to see ourselves

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as mothers in some way, that... That's a good

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representation of that for me, is seeing that

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role that she plays. And I love Khaleesi. I'm

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a big fan of Daenerys Targaryen. Yeah, who doesn't?

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Who can't? Who isn't a fan? I mean, minus the

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endings. That's on the writers, though, for how

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they fucked up Game of Thrones. Yeah, no, I don't

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count that because I rewrote that in my head.

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Oh, yeah, that's right. That's right. How about...

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The woman who killed the happy homemaker myth

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with a pair of leopard print spandex, Peggy Bundy

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from Married with Children. She was the anti

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-mom, really. Think about her. So she didn't

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cook, she didn't clean, and she didn't pretend

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to enjoy any of it. Yeah. She was honest about

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all the boredom, but she's also relatable. You

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look at her now, Coco, are you related? Is that

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relatable to how you feel sometimes? What you

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want to be like, do you see Peg Bundy? Her for

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her willingness to say, I deserve to be a stay

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at home mom that doesn't actually have to do

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anything. I mean, you know, you could call her

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lazy. You could call her, you could call her

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all kinds of things, but honestly, she's just

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saying, this is me. This is who I am. I'm not

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a cook. I'm not a cleaner. I take care of myself

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first and everybody else comes second. And is

00:18:08.750 --> 00:18:12.730
it? Is that so wrong? Really? She was Katie Seagal.

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Seagal. Katie Seagal. Seagal. Seagal. Yeah. Also

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played another TV mom, Gemma. Sons of Anarchy.

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Think about that one. Think about the contrast.

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Yeah, but I thought about that just right now.

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It popped in my head. The total contrast of a

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Peg Bundy and a Gemma by the same actor. Yeah.

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Katie Seagal. I love that. That's a TV mom that

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you don't think about. necessarily but she was

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all she was hard yeah you know she was a hard

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motorcycle mom overly involved mother into the

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dynamics and drama of that motorcycle gang that's

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basically hamlet yeah we talked about shakespeare

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yesterday essentially the story of hamlet made

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uh and sons of anarchy she was fantastic in that

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role and really she's been fantastic in every

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role the one thing i never understood about married

00:19:01.289 --> 00:19:04.529
with children is that she always wanted sex and

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uh al didn't And Al didn't. I was like, are you

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kidding me right now? You have this bombshell

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living in your house and you don't want what?

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That never made me ever. Yeah, I still laugh

00:19:16.190 --> 00:19:19.829
at that. Let's let's go ahead and play Patricia

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Richardson. Let's go ahead and get to Jill Taylor

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from Home Improvement. And we'll take a look

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at that right now. Patricia Richardson, Jill

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Taylor. Now, you had what, Brad, Randy, Mark?

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I had Brad, Randy, and Mark. In life, I had Joe,

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Henry, and Roxy. Henry is the oldest. He's now

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almost 40. The twins were born three months before

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I started home improvement. So they were on the

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set with me every day for three years. So not

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only were you raising those kids on set, off

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set, in real life, you had us at home. You were

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a sick mom to me. Well, you know, people tell

00:19:55.930 --> 00:19:58.289
me that, but I'm not as aware of that as I was

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of trying to parent my own kids. own kids you

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know Tim and I tried not to parent those kids

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because they had parents and it would that could

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get dicey but it was hard not to you know it

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was like I'm still doing like your boys they

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laugh about me still doing that yeah you know

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I just did I saw Taryn and Taryn who works for

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SpaceX has hair down to here super thick big

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hair how done here and he was doing this amazing

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interview with some friends of his that have

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a talk show or something And he was so great,

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so smart, and he's had such an interesting life.

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And so at the end of it, I talked to him later

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after it, and I was like, I don't know, Taryn,

00:20:39.789 --> 00:20:42.130
I think the hair's got to go. It's got to go,

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Taryn. And he's like, you're momming me again.

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You can mom me. Do I need to cut my hair? No.

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You have to see Taryn. My son is Joe Castle Baker,

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who's a very well -known gay. stand -up comedian

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and actor. And so he's doing all, but I was just

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telling them that he did the suicide hotline

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in New York for probably two or three years.

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And at that point, he was just kind of, maybe

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I'll go into psychology instead. Now, after all

00:21:11.589 --> 00:21:13.809
these years of doing what he's doing, I think

00:21:13.809 --> 00:21:15.950
he's going to go back. So this year, he's going

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to start looking for some labs to do. He's going

00:21:18.710 --> 00:21:21.630
to have to go back and get a master's. Wow. Isn't

00:21:21.630 --> 00:21:23.849
that what Jill was doing on the show? Wasn't

00:21:23.849 --> 00:21:25.589
she going to school? My character, yeah. I went

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back to school. But not to be, this is a lot

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of school. I mean, the way I did it was just

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to be like that little degree and go a couple

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of years. He, you know, he's probably going to

00:21:34.990 --> 00:21:37.730
end up needing to go like five years. It's also,

00:21:37.809 --> 00:21:39.750
it's been a really long time since he was in

00:21:39.750 --> 00:21:42.089
undergraduate school. So sometimes they want

00:21:42.089 --> 00:21:44.150
you to get a couple of courses from there. It's

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going to be a thing. I love it. That's amazing.

00:21:46.880 --> 00:21:49.380
We're here for Promise to Live. It's an organization

00:21:49.380 --> 00:21:52.980
that helps people be aware of making that promise

00:21:52.980 --> 00:21:56.420
to live, going to promisetolive .org. What do

00:21:56.420 --> 00:21:58.160
you think? Would you make the promise to live?

00:21:59.099 --> 00:22:01.940
That's really great. I love that. Yeah, so I

00:22:01.940 --> 00:22:05.519
have a coin for you. Yeah, we give these out.

00:22:05.599 --> 00:22:07.259
If you make the promise to live, you get a little

00:22:07.259 --> 00:22:10.460
hug for your pocket. I have somebody I should

00:22:10.460 --> 00:22:12.119
give this to. We got a lot more for you. We got

00:22:12.119 --> 00:22:13.819
extra for you. We can give you a lot of these.

00:22:14.000 --> 00:22:15.900
I have people that can use this. I also understand

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that you're on shifting gears coming up? Yes.

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Oh, yes. We put this here so people would know.

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Look at that. I didn't even see it. But also,

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it'll be October 1st. It's coming right up. We're

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just in one scene. We're in a little scene. Surprise.

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It's supposed to be a surprise, but now everybody

00:22:29.700 --> 00:22:32.359
knows. Oh, Debbie dropped it the other day, too.

00:22:32.420 --> 00:22:34.740
I know. Well, they brought it. They're advertising

00:22:34.740 --> 00:22:37.240
it. But, you know, they snuck us in. They didn't

00:22:37.240 --> 00:22:39.259
want the audience to see us. And, you know, so

00:22:39.259 --> 00:22:41.319
it was weird that they just started telling everybody.

00:22:41.519 --> 00:22:43.980
I come for us young girls who wanted to see Tim

00:22:43.980 --> 00:22:46.400
be put in his place. Night after night after

00:22:46.400 --> 00:22:49.339
night, we loved it. You know, they told me to

00:22:49.339 --> 00:22:51.400
begin with, if I wasn't strong against him, he

00:22:51.400 --> 00:22:54.890
looked abusive. with his stuff. So they had to

00:22:54.890 --> 00:22:56.970
have somebody. Because the first person they

00:22:56.970 --> 00:23:00.329
hired just looked like she was just abused. And

00:23:00.329 --> 00:23:02.630
so when they got me to come in, I'd be like,

00:23:02.809 --> 00:23:06.190
you know, so that wouldn't be that. You played

00:23:06.190 --> 00:23:09.289
the part. Now, we talked to Vicki Lawrence. And

00:23:09.289 --> 00:23:11.930
I mentioned you to Vicki. Oh, I got to meet her.

00:23:11.970 --> 00:23:13.730
I said that she was one of the original sitcom

00:23:13.730 --> 00:23:16.809
mamas. And you're, I said, there's another powerhouse

00:23:16.809 --> 00:23:18.869
sitcom. I mentioned you. And she said, oh, you

00:23:18.869 --> 00:23:20.470
were a better mother than her. She was too crazy.

00:23:20.670 --> 00:23:25.119
Oh, I love her. I love her. I'm seeing all these

00:23:25.119 --> 00:23:27.160
people. Matthew Martin, I know really well. I

00:23:27.160 --> 00:23:28.559
think he just didn't turn up. His table is still

00:23:28.559 --> 00:23:31.359
empty. Maybe tomorrow. I don't know. I don't

00:23:31.359 --> 00:23:33.480
know. It's weird. That's weird. Thank you so

00:23:33.480 --> 00:23:40.500
much, Patricia. Richard, Patricia, Debbie, hearts

00:23:40.500 --> 00:23:43.519
right there for me and Coco. Thank you so much

00:23:43.519 --> 00:23:47.099
for the time. I can't really. I really did love

00:23:47.099 --> 00:23:50.589
that. Can't wait to meet back up with them. Remember,

00:23:50.809 --> 00:23:55.130
home improvement, it was not necessarily that

00:23:55.130 --> 00:23:58.049
more power and the louder the tools was the better.

00:23:58.109 --> 00:24:01.769
It was the quieter and the better you could listen

00:24:01.769 --> 00:24:07.769
was the lesson there for you. So until next time,

00:24:07.990 --> 00:24:11.049
we'll catch you on the next frequency. Stay curious.

00:24:11.150 --> 00:24:14.720
Stay kind. Grunt every once in a while and maybe

00:24:14.720 --> 00:24:18.180
don't add more power than the system can handle.

00:24:18.799 --> 00:24:20.319
Parallel frequencies. We'll see you next time.

00:24:21.000 --> 00:24:23.619
And then I'll I'll just plug that one in. I mean,

00:24:23.640 --> 00:24:28.160
let's do like two more. OK, yeah. Three, two,

00:24:28.359 --> 00:24:32.259
one. Got to love Jill Taylor, Patricia Richardson

00:24:32.259 --> 00:24:36.480
at Dan X. That's once again, we get to we get

00:24:36.480 --> 00:24:38.539
to get in front of people like that with promise

00:24:38.539 --> 00:24:41.220
to live suicide prevention awareness. Go to promise

00:24:41.220 --> 00:24:46.779
to live dot org. Promise the number to live .org.

00:24:47.339 --> 00:24:50.339
Make the promise today. What else can you say

00:24:50.339 --> 00:24:53.660
about Jill Taylor? Just chill it down. Go check

00:24:53.660 --> 00:24:56.319
out our episode that we did home improvement.

00:24:56.579 --> 00:25:00.900
You can go back. We go real deep, deep dive into

00:25:00.900 --> 00:25:03.779
her character. And yeah, I don't think there

00:25:03.779 --> 00:25:06.940
are very many TV moms that. really hit on the

00:25:06.940 --> 00:25:08.940
head the way because you can have the overly

00:25:08.940 --> 00:25:13.160
sweet overly perfected mom you know the the era

00:25:13.160 --> 00:25:16.880
of carol brady but this was moving into an era

00:25:16.880 --> 00:25:20.119
of actually this is what real moms are like and

00:25:20.119 --> 00:25:22.039
this is what they really have to deal with and

00:25:22.039 --> 00:25:25.720
i think that she played jill just just right

00:25:25.720 --> 00:25:30.140
let's get to a a high functioning chaotic mom

00:25:30.140 --> 00:25:35.660
mora rose katherine o 'hara it's creep man What

00:25:35.660 --> 00:25:38.480
else can you say about her? Comedic gold there.

00:25:38.779 --> 00:25:42.240
Yeah. Right? And again, not a traditional mom

00:25:42.240 --> 00:25:47.660
character because she didn't know how to fold

00:25:47.660 --> 00:25:52.180
in the cheese. What does folding in mean? That's

00:25:52.180 --> 00:25:54.440
hilarious. That's the first scene I ever saw

00:25:54.440 --> 00:25:57.759
of Schitt's Creek. That was it. That was the

00:25:57.759 --> 00:26:00.279
very first one I ever saw. But, you know, she

00:26:00.279 --> 00:26:02.720
shows us that parenting is a performance. And

00:26:02.720 --> 00:26:04.640
sometimes you just got to lean into the theater

00:26:04.640 --> 00:26:08.640
of it. And she sure as hell did. But I love her.

00:26:09.119 --> 00:26:12.119
Give me one. Give me another one, Coco. Oh, man.

00:26:12.740 --> 00:26:15.319
I have so many here that we just don't have time

00:26:15.319 --> 00:26:18.079
for. But in going with the theme of not everybody

00:26:18.079 --> 00:26:22.000
is the classic gay birth have children mother,

00:26:22.240 --> 00:26:25.299
I just have to mention Scully from X -Files.

00:26:25.339 --> 00:26:28.039
You know, my favorite show of all time. Just

00:26:28.039 --> 00:26:30.519
because the influence of Scully being who she

00:26:30.519 --> 00:26:33.960
was on that show and the... role that she played

00:26:33.960 --> 00:26:36.859
as a scientist influenced so many generations

00:26:36.859 --> 00:26:39.160
of girls to go into science. They call it the

00:26:39.160 --> 00:26:42.680
Scully effect. They can actually document that

00:26:42.680 --> 00:26:45.920
more girls went into scientific fields after

00:26:45.920 --> 00:26:49.990
seeing X -Files. And so I just, you know, you

00:26:49.990 --> 00:26:52.009
got to chalk that up to Gillian Anderson and

00:26:52.009 --> 00:26:54.730
this character of Scully, who did become a mother

00:26:54.730 --> 00:26:57.230
in the series at one point. You know, if you're

00:26:57.230 --> 00:27:00.289
a big fan of X -Files, you'll know. Was it Mulder's

00:27:00.289 --> 00:27:03.210
baby or wasn't it? Was it an alien baby? You

00:27:03.210 --> 00:27:05.109
know, the controversy around that. But anyway,

00:27:05.349 --> 00:27:08.130
point is, she didn't have to have had a baby

00:27:08.130 --> 00:27:11.390
in that show to be mentioned because she, Scully,

00:27:11.549 --> 00:27:17.299
is mother. I like that. And I like that you had

00:27:17.299 --> 00:27:19.200
to get your X -Files reference in here, too.

00:27:19.339 --> 00:27:21.700
I had to. You should start trying to sneak one

00:27:21.700 --> 00:27:24.180
into every episode somehow. That might be my

00:27:24.180 --> 00:27:26.579
own game I'm playing. And see if the freaks out

00:27:26.579 --> 00:27:28.940
there can find out and figure out where all the

00:27:28.940 --> 00:27:32.559
X -Files references are. I got an unsung hero,

00:27:32.660 --> 00:27:34.500
and then we're going to get to Mama herself,

00:27:34.779 --> 00:27:38.799
Vicki Lawrence. Yeah. But I got one forgotten,

00:27:39.019 --> 00:27:41.599
maybe, at this point, because this show was...

00:27:41.869 --> 00:27:44.089
Before a lot of ours times, but we still watch

00:27:44.089 --> 00:27:47.089
it. Good times. Florida Evans, queen of resilience.

00:27:47.430 --> 00:27:49.690
She really is, you know, raising a family, Chicago

00:27:49.690 --> 00:27:52.730
projects, dealing with real world struggles.

00:27:52.789 --> 00:27:55.569
And she didn't have the luxury of, you know,

00:27:55.569 --> 00:27:59.289
the white picket fence sitcom. So got to give

00:27:59.289 --> 00:28:02.349
a shout out to her. Coco, let's go ahead, though,

00:28:02.430 --> 00:28:09.470
and watch Vicki Lawrence. Yes. And see. How chaotic.

00:28:09.470 --> 00:28:11.329
I don't think I've seen this interview since

00:28:11.329 --> 00:28:15.609
we did it. So pretty excited to see. And a lot

00:28:15.609 --> 00:28:17.069
of people know you. Do they still recognize you

00:28:17.069 --> 00:28:19.910
as mama? Oh, yeah. Absolutely. Well, you were

00:28:19.910 --> 00:28:22.809
everybody's mama. You were one of the first sitcom

00:28:22.809 --> 00:28:25.630
mamas. There's another powerhouse sitcom mama

00:28:25.630 --> 00:28:28.329
down here in Patricia Richardson. Oh, yeah. Well,

00:28:28.490 --> 00:28:32.349
but I was. Oh, yeah. Kind of a. She was a good.

00:28:33.599 --> 00:28:37.900
Mama. You know what? I love Mama's family. It

00:28:37.900 --> 00:28:40.099
gave me permission to be a little crass and a

00:28:40.099 --> 00:28:42.779
little straightforward with my kids, and I love

00:28:42.779 --> 00:28:44.819
it. I think so. Yeah, now I think I'm Mama's

00:28:44.819 --> 00:28:48.720
age, so I agree with her. You still look younger

00:28:48.720 --> 00:28:51.099
than Mama. Oh, my God. I love you. I just want

00:28:51.099 --> 00:28:53.519
to hang out with you all day. Comedy legend right

00:28:53.519 --> 00:28:55.740
here. I know people always mention Carol when

00:28:55.740 --> 00:28:57.819
we talk about comedy legends, but... Everybody

00:28:57.819 --> 00:28:59.519
needs to be talking about Vicki. She's another

00:28:59.519 --> 00:29:02.160
comedy legend we all look up to. Thank you so

00:29:02.160 --> 00:29:04.380
much. There's people out there that need to hear

00:29:04.380 --> 00:29:05.859
a message of hope. You got something for them.

00:29:05.980 --> 00:29:07.640
And I don't know what she's going to say right

00:29:07.640 --> 00:29:09.660
here, but she can say something wild. A message

00:29:09.660 --> 00:29:12.000
of hope. Well, I think I said it. You have to

00:29:12.000 --> 00:29:14.400
keep laughing or you will slit your wrist. And

00:29:14.400 --> 00:29:16.720
if you're a mother like I am, you're the one

00:29:16.720 --> 00:29:18.519
that's going to have to clean up the mess. So,

00:29:18.539 --> 00:29:22.599
you know, keep laughing. Oh, my goodness. Thank

00:29:22.599 --> 00:29:26.220
you. We've had a lot of beautiful messages out

00:29:26.220 --> 00:29:38.019
here. Oh my God. Coco. She's a wild one. I loved

00:29:38.019 --> 00:29:41.500
her. Vicky and mama's family. I mean, she was

00:29:41.500 --> 00:29:44.319
very young playing an older woman in mama's family,

00:29:44.359 --> 00:29:46.640
but I loved mama's family. Cause like I said,

00:29:46.700 --> 00:29:53.039
she was, she was just crass and blunt and. I'm

00:29:53.039 --> 00:29:55.799
an old woman. Give me my peace. Leave me alone.

00:29:56.599 --> 00:29:59.380
Still, it is crass and blunt. I mean, that message

00:29:59.380 --> 00:30:01.420
right there. We don't we get a lot of messages.

00:30:02.559 --> 00:30:05.579
That's the only time we might have gotten that

00:30:05.579 --> 00:30:10.680
one. But hey, to each their own. Because, I mean,

00:30:10.680 --> 00:30:12.279
there may be somebody out there who wants to

00:30:12.279 --> 00:30:16.599
hear it that way. I don't see that they don't

00:30:16.599 --> 00:30:18.519
want it. You know, I don't know. I don't know.

00:30:18.539 --> 00:30:22.569
But Mama, love her. Love Mama. yeah who else

00:30:22.569 --> 00:30:26.549
you got on your list speaking of mamas who this

00:30:26.549 --> 00:30:28.410
is gonna be a fun question and i stole it from

00:30:28.410 --> 00:30:32.230
you what tv mama is most like your actual mama

00:30:32.230 --> 00:30:35.789
and freaks jump in on that too because i wanted

00:30:35.789 --> 00:30:39.410
to know who had yeah jill taylor as a mom who

00:30:39.410 --> 00:30:42.769
had mama as a mom i know i know mine i'm gonna

00:30:42.769 --> 00:30:45.069
give you mine after yeah i almost would have

00:30:45.069 --> 00:30:48.200
to like patchwork quilts a couple of different

00:30:48.200 --> 00:30:51.799
mamas from a lot of different shows and you know

00:30:51.799 --> 00:30:53.519
a little bit of this and a little bit of that

00:30:53.519 --> 00:31:01.339
uh but um i'm gonna say maggie smith and downton

00:31:01.339 --> 00:31:05.559
abby oh look at you having tea it's like a vibe

00:31:05.559 --> 00:31:08.420
my mom has always had where it's she's she clearly

00:31:08.420 --> 00:31:10.980
loves her family so much but she's a little bit

00:31:10.980 --> 00:31:13.299
more like she's not gonna be like the hugging

00:31:14.329 --> 00:31:17.589
you know, really like warm, like that kind of

00:31:17.589 --> 00:31:20.349
vibe. But it's going to be more like, you know,

00:31:20.349 --> 00:31:22.529
I love you. And I'm here for this wisdom and

00:31:22.529 --> 00:31:25.930
this, this matriarchal place that, that they

00:31:25.930 --> 00:31:31.329
hold in the family. I love that. I love that.

00:31:31.349 --> 00:31:33.210
Let me tell you who mine is. And she's going

00:31:33.210 --> 00:31:36.009
to be mad, but I, but I don't think so. I don't

00:31:36.009 --> 00:31:40.009
think so. Come on. But my mom, I love her. I

00:31:40.009 --> 00:31:43.900
love Roseanne. And I'm not talking about the

00:31:43.900 --> 00:31:47.660
real life. Let's look at it as a TV character.

00:31:47.880 --> 00:31:51.240
TV character, right? Yes. Roseanne. Roseanne

00:31:51.240 --> 00:31:55.160
Connor. Roseanne Connor all the way. The attitude.

00:31:55.319 --> 00:31:58.119
She had all of that, man. She did. Didn't take

00:31:58.119 --> 00:32:02.859
no shit. But still loved us. And very much was

00:32:02.859 --> 00:32:05.700
like a Roseanne. And Roseanne's one of my favorite

00:32:05.700 --> 00:32:08.680
TV moms. Oh, that's top of my list for sure.

00:32:08.900 --> 00:32:12.690
We could go on and talk about. Roseanne, the

00:32:12.690 --> 00:32:15.170
show, was one of my favorite shows. Still is.

00:32:15.230 --> 00:32:18.509
One of my favorite shows on TV ever. Aunt Jackie.

00:32:18.750 --> 00:32:22.069
Laurie Metcalf playing Jackie. I mean, another

00:32:22.069 --> 00:32:26.670
great TV mom, right? Tell me, what drew you to

00:32:26.670 --> 00:32:30.329
Aunt Jackie? Scene that she did where she won

00:32:30.329 --> 00:32:33.990
the Emmy. Oh, yeah. um and people have probably

00:32:33.990 --> 00:32:35.609
seen it it comes up on reels all the time or

00:32:35.609 --> 00:32:37.369
at least it does in my algorithm because i watch

00:32:37.369 --> 00:32:39.289
it all the time i like re -watch it re -watch

00:32:39.289 --> 00:32:41.869
it where she's um she's on the phone telling

00:32:41.869 --> 00:32:43.970
a relative that their dad had died and it's kind

00:32:43.970 --> 00:32:46.910
of emotional but she's they made it extremely

00:32:46.910 --> 00:32:49.430
funny because she's trying to yell at someone

00:32:49.430 --> 00:32:52.470
who can't hear and she's like we've he's passed

00:32:52.470 --> 00:32:56.730
away he's passed away and then finally he's He's

00:32:56.730 --> 00:32:59.609
fine. He sends his love. And then I'm never doing

00:32:59.609 --> 00:33:02.130
that again. I just saw an interview with her

00:33:02.130 --> 00:33:04.470
and she said that Norm Macdonald wrote that scene.

00:33:05.289 --> 00:33:07.549
That's incredible. You're on the show, Roseanne.

00:33:07.609 --> 00:33:11.069
And I mean, Laurie Metcalf deserves every Emmy

00:33:11.069 --> 00:33:15.069
she got and more. Well, let me show. Hold on.

00:33:15.309 --> 00:33:17.349
Hold on. Let me make this connection for you

00:33:17.349 --> 00:33:20.650
because Laurie Metcalf, Sheldon Cooper's mom.

00:33:21.150 --> 00:33:24.730
She ends up becoming a TV mom. And oh, my gosh,

00:33:24.789 --> 00:33:27.430
you got to love her, too. Yeah, playing the kind

00:33:27.430 --> 00:33:30.710
of ultra -Christian. Ultra -Christian. And then

00:33:30.710 --> 00:33:33.569
her daughter plays Sheldon's mom in the Young

00:33:33.569 --> 00:33:36.150
Sheldon series. Oh my gosh. You get that connection

00:33:36.150 --> 00:33:38.750
right there too. All these great TV moms. Look

00:33:38.750 --> 00:33:41.069
at that. Oh man, we could keep going. This really

00:33:41.069 --> 00:33:42.849
could turn into six hours, but we better not.

00:33:43.069 --> 00:33:44.849
You got anybody else before we wrap this thing

00:33:44.849 --> 00:33:48.529
up? I'm done. Okay, I have two I can't not mention.

00:33:48.990 --> 00:33:50.769
We don't have to go into it, but I want to mention

00:33:50.769 --> 00:33:53.349
because freaks out there, I want to know if these

00:33:53.349 --> 00:33:58.490
are on your list too. Lucille Bluth, not what

00:33:58.490 --> 00:34:02.490
you would consider a great mom, but played so

00:34:02.490 --> 00:34:05.990
well. And so it's kind of another Moira Rose

00:34:05.990 --> 00:34:10.469
type of, you know, came from wealth background.

00:34:10.570 --> 00:34:13.309
She just does such a fantastic job playing Lucille

00:34:13.309 --> 00:34:17.920
Bluth in Arrested Development. And then. For

00:34:17.920 --> 00:34:20.780
those of you with little kids watching your kids'

00:34:21.019 --> 00:34:24.239
TV shows, this is a more recent, more modern

00:34:24.239 --> 00:34:29.139
TV mom. We can't not mention Chili from Blue.

00:34:29.800 --> 00:34:33.619
Yes! Is there a better TV mom than Chili? No,

00:34:33.699 --> 00:34:35.900
but I could think of a worse TV mom, and that

00:34:35.900 --> 00:34:38.360
would be Skylar from Breaking Bad. We could put

00:34:38.360 --> 00:34:44.989
her at the total opposite end of Chili. We got

00:34:44.989 --> 00:34:47.769
a big spectrum here today. I mean, so many great

00:34:47.769 --> 00:34:50.469
mentions here. Let me throw one more in there

00:34:50.469 --> 00:34:54.869
that we could put up there at the top because

00:34:54.869 --> 00:34:57.130
she went through the upside down and everything

00:34:57.130 --> 00:35:00.349
else. That's Joyce Byers. Think about what she

00:35:00.349 --> 00:35:03.630
did, too. So, look, we can keep going. Freaks

00:35:03.630 --> 00:35:05.670
out there, please keep rolling with it. I want

00:35:05.670 --> 00:35:09.550
to know the TV moms out there that you thought

00:35:09.550 --> 00:35:13.250
raised you or that you. are relatable you know

00:35:13.250 --> 00:35:15.889
you you're related to you know whatever influence

00:35:15.889 --> 00:35:20.170
your own influence right yeah let's hear it let's

00:35:20.170 --> 00:35:22.230
hear it but that's gonna do it for this edition

00:35:22.230 --> 00:35:25.429
parallel frequencies i'm just playing she is

00:35:25.429 --> 00:35:29.170
coco you're the freaks we love our tv moms we

00:35:29.170 --> 00:35:30.190
will see you on the other side