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Send Help: What Happens When Your Boss Crashes on an Island With You
A plane goes down. Two people wash ashore. One of them has actually trained for this. The other spent the flight mocking her survivor audition tape.
Send Help is a genre-blending thriller that starts as a survival story and becomes something far more complicated. Rachel McAdams plays Linda, the overqualified assistant whose corporate worth is measured by her shoes, her lunch drawer, and whether she fits the mold. Dylan O'Brien is Bradley Preston, the nepo baby boss who can't recognize competence even when it's keeping him alive.
The movie asks a question that cuts deeper than the island premise: What is a person's actual worth? Linda carries the company on her back, writes the presentations, does the work, but gets none of the credit or the promotion. On the island, the power dynamic inverts. Suddenly her skills matter. Suddenly she has authority. And suddenly the question becomes: how far will she go to keep it?
It's a sharp commentary on patriarchal systems versus community-based survival. It's also darkly funny, viscerally tense, and doesn't waste a single frame. Sam Raimi's direction keeps the genre from tipping too far in any direction. The result punches above its weight.
If you've been sleeping on this one, tonight's the night.
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00:00 - Island Survival & Movie Intro
00:12 - Send Help Movie Overview
01:10 - Kindergarten Graduation Stories
03:02 - Secret Millionaire Reality Show
05:32 - Widows Bay & First Time Reactions
09:13 - Character Analysis & Power Dynamics
19:57 - Worth & Community Systems
27:44 - Final Thoughts & Recommendation
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What would you do if you were overworked and
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your arrogant boss and you had a plane crash
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on an island? Would you be able to survive or
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what would the power dynamic look like? Send
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Help is our movie today for Movie Monday. It
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is Parallel Frequencies. I am Just Blaine. She
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is Coco. You are the freaks. Coco, what's up?
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What's going on over there? I dare say if you
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and I were in a plane crash on a desert island,
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we gonna die. Probably. But I'm not a nepo baby
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boss. Yeah, you might have some skills. I got
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a couple skills. And I don't act like Bradley
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did in this. So, you know. Yeah, we're going
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to get into that. We might survive. We'll leave
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that up to the freaks. We'll ask them. Freaks,
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do you think if me and Coco crashed on an island,
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would we survive? Put it out there. How long?
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Over or under? How long? How many days? How long
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do you think we're going to make it? I got like
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three days. Exactly, right? I don't know, though,
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because I've been surviving pretty hard here
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lately. I just had a kindergarten graduation.
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That's why. Yeah. We're surviving May as parents.
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And any freaks out there who are parents wrapping
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up the school year, tell us how you're surviving
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May. How was it going? How was the graduation?
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It was great. It was cute, I guess. That's what
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you say. You know what? I got a text from my
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own dad and he said, congratulations, only 12
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more to go. And I was like, oh my gosh. Yeah.
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I mean, you don't have to do that many graduations
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because typically they don't do like first grade
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graduation and second grade graduation and all
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that, right? But I used to be a kindergarten
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teacher. So I used to... prep my kindergarteners
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for their kindergarten graduation. We did the
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caps and gowns. Oh, yeah. They used to rent a
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stage and an auditorium for it at my school.
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They went all out. And I can tell you, kindergarten
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teachers, we work really hard at getting those
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kids ready. And, you know, I was really good
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at, like, I would have... programs where the
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kids were singing in a round there was like parts
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they had props i mean i really got went all in
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on it like really worked hard on it and then
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i realized after a couple years parents don't
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really care if they did a great job in their
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program or not they're just gonna be so thrilled
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and taking pictures that was it yeah bunch of
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bunch of that was happening we didn't care we
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were in there smiling clicking you know it was
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that's how it was all down And it would still
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be a great program. Everyone loves it. I think
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some of them did. I think I saw Amanda's kid
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in there. I think he was over there falling over,
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and mine was too, and their little buddy. Kids
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crying. Sometimes they just bust up crying in
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the middle of it, and you're like, meh, it is
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what it is. You never know. You never know, but
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it's wild. What have you been watching? You watch
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anything lately? Over the weekend, maybe? Yeah.
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Our family just finished on Netflix the second
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season of Secret Millionaire. We loved the first
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season, so we had to watch this. It's one of
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those reality shows where they're competing.
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And I love it because there's a lot of intrigue
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and they make it harder and harder and harder
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for the contestants. So they have all these people
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move into a mansion together. And in their rooms,
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there's going to be a box. And only one of them,
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when they open the box, it will have a million
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dollars in it. So he's a millionaire. Everybody
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else in the house is slowly trying to figure
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out who the millionaire is and they get to vote
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off somebody at the end of every episode. So
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if they vote the person off, a new millionaire
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is chosen the next day. But if they don't catch
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that millionaire and the millionaire is going
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to have all these like secret agendas that they
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give them. So they have to like do their agenda
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so that they can. get a special thing like they
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get to vote an extra person off or you know they
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get these little perks but if they don't do their
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agenda then they get three votes counted against
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them in the voting so they have to do their agenda
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like they have to but the agenda is also going
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to kind of expose them to everybody now this
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this is eerily similar to a show called the mole
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From way back. And then they brought it back
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on Netflix. It's on Netflix. There's a newer
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season from a couple years back. But I've always
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loved this premise. And the mole is the same
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type of thing, except for it's just one person's
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the mole. They got to sabotage the game. They're
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trying to win money. If the mole does his job,
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they get certain. Yeah, it's the same kind of
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concept. But I love these shows that do this,
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where it's making people come out of their comfort
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zones to play. Oh, for sure. I love how some
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of them are like, they start off, they're like,
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oh, I'm not going to lie, cheat, and steal. And
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that's what they do the entire game. That's exactly
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what they need to do. You can't blame them. They're
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in it for the long haul. But then you have these
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ones. I love in Secret Millionaire, you have
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these one contestants once in a while that will
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say something like, I think I'm getting away
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with it. I don't think it wants to stop me. And
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then you hear all these other confessionals and
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they're like, I totally think it's her. Yeah.
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They're like, she's so obvious and we are getting
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her, you know, and it's just hilarious to me.
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Let me tell you what I've been watching. I caught
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one and it's not it's not a surprise. It might
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be right now because it's top of mind for lots.
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Widows Bay on Apple TV plus. Holy shit. That's
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all I can say. Matthew Rhys. I love Matthew Rhys.
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He was on the Americans. I love that TV show.
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He did a great job on that. And I thought, you
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know, I was like, here's the. Come out party
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for Matthew Reese. Here he is. Welcome. Welcome
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to the world of acting. And this show, you got
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to check it out. They're four episodes deep.
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In episode four, I did one of those like right
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off the couch. Like, oh, my God. What? I love
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that. It's up there. I love it. We'll talk. I
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think we got to put that on our docket soon.
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And it's a weekly. Every Wednesday. I think they
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got a couple more episodes. You can catch up.
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They're only 40 minutes long, but you got to
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go check out that one. I get to start recording
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myself watching something for the first time
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because I got super into watching this girl on,
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she's, you know, probably like TikTok, Instagram.
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She's probably really popular, but she watches
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Star Wars for the first time. And so the whole
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clip is just her watching Star Wars. Like, she's
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like, you guys, I've never seen Star Wars before.
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I'm going to watch it. And there is something
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about watching someone watch something like that
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for the first time. that I was hooked. I wanted
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to see her reaction. When, you know, it comes
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to finding out Darth Vader is Luke's father,
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she's like, what? I'm like, this is so satisfying.
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It's such a weird way. Yeah. I love it. I love
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it. But let's get to Movie Monday and send help.
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A movie that was quietly added to Hulu, kind
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of dropped out of nowhere. started making a name,
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put it on the banner up there, and that's when
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I finally said, you know what, I better click
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on this and watch it. And I was shocked at what
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I saw. It's not your typical, you know, there's
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a lot of twists and turns in this Send Help flick
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with a star cast, Sam Raimi directing. And I
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love Sam Raimi from way back, but you got Rachel
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McAdams crushing it, by the way, and Dylan O
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'Brien. crushing it in his own way we we hate
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him right we hate this guy Bradley Preston in
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the movie and he comes across and you think he's
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got some redeeming qualities and he just doubles
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down and it makes it even worse so you know he
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gets what's coming to him but what you think
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about this you've been this has been on your
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radar for a while too I think yeah I remember
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when I first came out and seeing the trailer
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and stuff and I said this is going to be great
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and I think yeah like i you know like a lot of
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other things you just kind of forget about it
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or you know move on with life so when it did
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drop on hulu i was so excited i was like oh my
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gosh we're finally gonna see it so so such a
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good premise of that blend of horror and comedy
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i mean i think they did a fantastic job you know
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There was once a time when horror was horror
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and comedy was comedy. And now we live in this
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beautiful age where you get to watch a horror
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movie and laugh through it, too. And I love that.
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I'm here for it. Genre blending is my favorite
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types of movies. Like, blend them all together.
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I want to laugh in a horror movie. I want to
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have some moments where I'm like, this is hilarious.
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I'm having the best time. Yeah. Yeah. And this
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is one. This definitely is one. Simple premise,
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really, if you look at it, because this is the
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typical classic, who are you when the lights
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go out? You know, who are you when you don't
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have a LinkedIn profile to look at? And they
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joke about it. They make fun of her on the airplane.
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Remember that? And they're like, they find her
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Survivor audition tape and they're making fun
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of her. I wish. Let me tell you, I got a Survivor
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audition tape out there somewhere. Do you really?
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I do. I applied. I went down, and this was way
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back. I faked. Oh, my God. I can't believe I'm
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going to tell you this. This video is out there.
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I hope it comes to life. We need to dig this
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up and show this video. That would be great.
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I took a stuffed animal and a thing of ketchup,
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and I took my shirt off, and I was out there.
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It was out in the snow. This was in Memphis.
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It was cold. It was snowing. I had my shirt off.
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I had some of the ketchup on me, like blood,
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and I was over there eating. Like I was eating
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raw meat out of just living off the land, you
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know, and I told him, I said, you know, I'm I'm
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ready to whatever. It's out there. I did it.
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They could they could easily make fun of me,
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but they did it to her. And then you find out
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you're like, oh, no, they shouldn't have done
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that because they don't need her. You know, let's
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talk about that moment and every moment leading
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up to that in the movie first, because I would
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like to know. especially for the freaks who have
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watched this movie, was there any part of you
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that related to her? Like, were you more related
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to her? Are we more, more feeling like the bro,
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the bro energy was what you related to or resonated
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with? Because I was definitely more like her.
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I was. probably you know growing up in elementary
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school middle school like a little bit nerdy
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wore those oversized t -shirts because i didn't
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know how to dress yet didn't know how to do anything
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i you know it was just kind of like how come
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nobody likes me and that kind of desperation
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for like wanting to be a part of the team wanting
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to be like oh you guys are going to karaoke yeah
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i could totally kill it on this song you guys
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what time are we meeting and they're just like
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No, we can't have this. Join us. We don't. But
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this made me think of that phrase. And once I
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heard this phrase, it changed my life was you
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don't owe the world pretty. And that is so important
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because look at Rachel McAdams in this role.
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Not attractive in the first. Which is wild. Yeah.
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And she's gorgeous. We all know Rachel McAdams
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is gorgeous. We know that. But what if we are
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all that? We are all the unattractive and the
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attractive. What if we can all be either or both
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or anything, right? Like the episode of Seinfeld
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where the girl was one way in the light and another
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way in the... Remember that one? I remember that,
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yeah. Yeah, but no, you're right. And I think
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I related more to her as well. I don't... You've
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known me for a while. I don't really have that
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bro energy where I'm going to make you fun of...
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I'm definitely not making fun of somebody's damn
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survivor tape when I've got my own out there
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floating around. Yeah, I don't do that. So I
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see myself more like where she was as well. And
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I think it's funny. You point out that she's
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not attractive in the beginning, but she's highly
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attractive once she gets on that island. I love
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that part. Yeah. I love that. How many people
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are going to be attractive when they've been
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stranded on a desert island? They're soaking
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wet. They're starving. They don't got moisturizer.
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They don't got their makeup. They don't got like
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all the things that make us, you know, presentable
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enough to leave our house every day. Yeah. She's
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like in her natural raw element and she actually
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finds her beauty there in that. I mean, you could
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be real. If the cell towers go down for more
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than six hours, half the people out there are
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trading their prized possessions for a single
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bar of service. So, yes. I think Rachel McAdams,
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and her character, I keep calling her Rachel
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McAdams because that's it, but Linda Little.
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And we find that out, too, and that plays in.
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Her shoes, I love that thing, too, that whole
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part of it, too. Yeah, this is... Yeah, I was
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made fun of for my shoes. Yeah, yeah. I have
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been there. I've been there. This whole movie
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is a mirror for how deeply alienated we've all
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become from basic survival instincts and from
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each other. And you do that by making fun of
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the shoes and making fun of a survivor audition
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tape. How else do you want to alienate somebody?
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They should have been in there saying, oh, this
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is awesome. They should have said... Yeah. They
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should have said, oh, this survivor thing is
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awesome. Did they call you? It's that easy. It's
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that easy. Yeah. Okay. So if it's that easy,
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what is that bro energy? What is it? And it's
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also mean girl energy. I mean, let me be fair.
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Across the board, they're just types, right?
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But in this movie particularly, we see it as
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kind of this bro energy. I don't know how else
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to say it. These are... yeah summer's eve type
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guys like they're just like uh we we get each
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other we're totally gonna promote each other
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we are totally going to you know have this bro
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thing going on and this girl has to use dry shampoo
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you know she's not one of us she's not getting
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the promotion she's not but she's willing to
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do the work for us and That's another point that
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I think that is really important. If you're too
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good at your job, you won't get a promotion is
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kind of the issue that we're seeing here, right?
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Never. And that goes for anybody. That's male
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or female in that spot because there's a lot
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of people I know have been there, myself included,
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to where you get too valuable in that role and
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they can't replace you. It's going to cost them
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more to replace you in that role than promote
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you and bring somebody else into that that can
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fill that spot. And that's crazy. The bro energy,
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a lot of that is a hive mind too. It is. But
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in this movie, Preston still carries that bro
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energy even when he crashes on that island and
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he's got nobody else. Yeah. Except for Survivor
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Audition Tape, who was a real survival. She had
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educated herself for this. She wants to stay.
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That tells you something. Yeah. And she goes
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through some crazy extremes to make that happen.
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Yes. And then you kind of get into a debate as
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we go along of like, who's the villain here?
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Exactly. Because at first, no question, Bradley
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Preston's the villain. He's horrible to her.
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He's so condescending. He's so awful, even as
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he depends on her for his survival. And she's
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being very generous. From the very beginning,
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she could be awful to him. And she's like. I
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need to keep you hydrated. I need to keep you
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fed. I'm going to take care of you. It's going
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to be okay. We're going to get through this.
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And as she's taking care of him, he's still acting
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like I'm your boss. I'm above you. So it takes
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a couple of rounds of putting him in his place,
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which none of us, I don't think the audience
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is unhappy to see at all. No, not at all. We
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love seeing his moment of, how low can you go
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yeah eating the bread and there's some crazy
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see i love that scene where she's got him she
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strips him naked waist down got him up said she's
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gonna castrate him that i don't know why that
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didn't scare him enough right there i mean you
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crash on an island you look across and at some
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point you gotta think like okay she's better
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at this than me But there you go. He was a nepo
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baby and probably didn't have any skills to be
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in that position to begin with. He didn't know
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what real leadership was and didn't know how
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to recognize it. And that's a problem when you
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crash on an island and you don't know what to
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do. Right. Like because I just think that, you
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know, the script was brilliant at making this
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character dynamic where it played on. Our hyper
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individualistic culture. Everybody wants to save
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themselves. But the irony, the cosmic joke, if
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you want to call it that. Isolation is its own
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death sentence. You need a tribe. You know, even
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if you can't stand them, you still got to have
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them. You still got to have them people. You
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see that on shows like Survivor, Alone, Naked
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and Afraid. Yes. When their survival skills are
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put to the test, they're almost often more valuable
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together as a couple. Even when one is pulling
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more of the weight than the other. I think even
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on Naked and Afraid, I've seen enough episodes
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to see that they make it better. They're more
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likely to make it together than when one leaves
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or taps out early than the other one. It's a
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real struggle to get to the 21 days or 40 days
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or whatever the time is that they have to stay
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there. uh alone uh when you watch the show alone
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you see the top survivalist people in the world
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are doing this show and even they struggle i
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mean you watch them struggle to make a fire you
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they struggle to find food um so even if she's
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been training to be on survivor uh linda little
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The fact that she is able to go to this island
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and actually use those skills and thrive and
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then think to herself, I might stay here forever.
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Yeah. I don't ever need to go home. To the point
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where she murders people to make it happen. Yeah.
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Which is, I mean, then you start to come into
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an argument of like, well, she took it a little
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farther, I think maybe. Yeah. Yeah. Then it goes
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from, then it's not, then once again, we've got
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a genre blender. It's not the. female revenge
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movie now we've got a criminal as well you know
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she's a kidnapper uh murderers yeah right yeah
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we've got a problem here for sure but i do want
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to talk about like you talk about community or
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doing it together the question that i have when
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i watch this movie is a question of worth a person's
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worth because if you go to the beginning of the
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movie linda is treated like she's worthless she's
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disposable she's dispensable it's it's like oh
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we were gonna give you a promotion but we decided
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not to because i mean they don't say it outright
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but basically you don't meet our expectations
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yeah what a person should look like and smell
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like and what they have for lunch in their drawer
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or whatever yeah but Where is Linda's worth?
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Where is her worth? Because she is obviously
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capable, smart, a hard worker. She's carrying
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the company on her back as far as like what she's
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able to do. So much so that they'll allow her
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to make the presentations and the reports, but
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they won't let her present it. Yeah. You can
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come along. She can do all the work on her laptop,
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but... They're not going to actually thank her,
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promote her, pay her more, like any of the things
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that count as worth, right? And then what is
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her worth on this island when it's just the two
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of them? Then where does her worth become and
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where is his worth? And when does it become like
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a patriarchal kind of like there's a hierarchy?
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I'm above you. And what would it look like if
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it was more of a matriarchal community? We all
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find our worth and our contributions. As a community
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together, no one is above or below anyone else.
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Yeah. Right? If me and you crash on an island,
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what are we doing? What's going to happen? We're
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going to talk first. This is what I can see happening.
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Okay. Is me and you discussing, hey, what kind
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of survival skills do you have? Hey, what do
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you have? Hey, what should we do first? Let's
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talk about what would we do first, Coco? We would
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make a good team because although I don't have
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the skills of actually being able to do a whole
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lot, I'm very capable of following directions.
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Oh, you are. And I'm a good idea person. So I
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can be like, here's what I think we should do.
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Now you tell me how we get those things done
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and I will do what I'm told. And I have always
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seen it in you. It is. You do follow directions
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right to the T. But what? So you would want me
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to come up with our first idea and then, because
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I know the first thing we should do. I'd be like,
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I think we should get fire. What do you think?
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This is what some people do. Now how do we make
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a fire? And I would look at you and say, do you
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think fire will help us live? Because I think
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we should go find fresh water first. Right, yeah.
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We'd go find our water source and then we'd probably
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build a shelter and then get our fire going.
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But this is it. It wouldn't be, oh, I'm above
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you. Go get the wood. Go get the... No, no, no,
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no. That's not how you do it. We would definitely
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be equals out there. Even if you were following
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my direction and instruction, I would still see
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you as an equal because we ain't getting out
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of there if I don't look at it like that. Yeah.
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Yeah. And one thing to understand about like
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the difference between a matriarchal system and
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a patriarchal system is that there's the hierarchy
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in a patriarchal system of like, I have authority
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over you. You do what I say. No questions. I'm
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not saying that's bad. I think there's a lot
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of situations where that's needed. I understand
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like that's the way hospitals run. Like there
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has to be a hierarchy of like, I have tenure
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here. I have more, you know, time and skills
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I put in and we don't have time for you to question
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me as an authority figure. Right. So it saves
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lives. I get there's a place for that, but a
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matriarchal system is a little bit more like
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what you just described where like, it's about
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everybody puts the community as a priority first,
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rather than who's in charge of that. community
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so it's just interesting that while linda was
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in a system that was very patriarchal in her
00:24:06.799 --> 00:24:11.220
corporate job she has like no say in what happens
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to her she's completely at the mercy of this
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nepo baby boss that she's got and then she switches
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those roles and then she's like you will do what
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i say unquestioningly on this island because
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i have the authority what's your final thoughts
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on send help Oh, man, I just I always dreamed
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as a kid when I was really treated badly or made
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fun of, usually by boys. I'm just going to say.
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Yeah, I get it. I mean, too. But but the way
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that you see it in this movie, that's I recognize
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that more having having had that happen with
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boys when I was in elementary school than girls.
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And I would have loved an opportunity to get
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back at them or to. show show them up somehow
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a dream come true so that was really satisfying
00:25:03.490 --> 00:25:06.210
to watch in this movie is to see that moment
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where she stabs the rat yeah and her throat a
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feral primal like um almost like a tiger i don't
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know how else to describe it she's just like
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don't question me again or this will be your
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testicles yeah satisfying i'm not gonna lie i
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don't agree with the murdering but That was fun
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to watch. It was. And then that was a nice twist,
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I think. That's a Sam Raimi, you know, type of
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thing to throw in there to do. And they could
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have kept the movie straight and just done it
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without the murder. And it would have still been
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great. It would have still been great because
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we got that character dynamic. We get to see
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and we get to sit here and break down and talk
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about. I've been in that corporate world. I've
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seen that type of stuff go on and maybe not recognized
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it. at the moment, but thought about it later
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and realized, oh, that's why all the girls were
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piled up in my tiny -ass little studio. They
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felt better in there. They felt good around me.
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I wasn't doing that stuff. Make them feel used.
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Make them feel seen and safe and, you know, at
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least that their contributions are recognized
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and appreciated. I hope so. If I ever worked
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with you and I made you feel that way, hit me
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up. I want to hear that. I want to know. I don't
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ask for much. I'd like to know. I got a couple
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names in mind that I, yeah, I could probably,
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I won't say them. It shouldn't be that rare,
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and yet it is, and that's sad. Yeah. Let's do
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better, humans. Yeah, do better. Do better. I
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love this movie. I think this movie was a no
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-nonsense thriller that really punched above
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its weight class. Like, I'm serious. I don't
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know why this one didn't get more. love from
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maybe it did I just did maybe I missed it maybe
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I'm on the wrong frequency and I didn't see it
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come out but I mean I think I found it and then
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had to tell you right and you didn't even know
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it was out yeah I didn't realize it was out streaming
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but I had remembered watching the trailer yeah
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and you you'd been waiting on it right like they
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didn't something else must have come out on Disney
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and Hulu right at the same time because no we
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can't all the time we're we're just too We're
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just human beings. Yeah. I got to say, final
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thought, that in a landscape out there of bloated
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three -hour corporate products, a movie that
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knows exactly what it wants to do and executes
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it with sharp wit and tension is rare. And that
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one is right here in front of you as Send Help.
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I give it a must watch. You got to watch this.
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Go watch it tonight. It's long, but it won't
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feel long. It won't feel long at all. I watched
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it in one sitting and I think it is over two
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hours long and that's rare for me. So yeah, go
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check this movie out. I am just playing. She
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is Coco. You are the freaks. And this is parallel
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frequencies. We will see you on the other side.