Redefining Success, Healing the Inner Child, and the Power of Rose Quartz

Keywords: inner child healing, redefine success, rose quartz crystal meaning, spiritual healing, Practically Magick podcast, crystal shop Utah, Prism Healing, Rising Moon Minerals

In this heartfelt episode of Practically Magick, hosts Courtney Pearl and Jamie Osborne explore the deep emotional terrain of success, inner child healing, and the transformative power of rose quartz. Recorded at Rising Moon Minerals in Riverton, Utah, this conversation is a beautiful reminder that healing is nonlinear, success is personal, and magic is everywhere.

Tarot Pull: Light, Balance, and Inner Child Wisdom

The episode opens with a card pull from the Healing the Inner Child Oracle deck—a vibrant, colorful card that sparks a conversation about light, balance, and visual healing. Courtney shares insights from The Great Work by Tiffany Lazic, which explores light as both particle and wave, a metaphor for being both body and spirit.

“We are both sacred and holy—the heaven and the earth where they meet.”

Jamie adds that healing often happens in the gray area, not in extremes. The card’s imagery and timing align perfectly with Courtney’s recent Healing Through Art workshop, where participants connected with their inner child through creative expression.

Awe, Art, and the Crystal Shop Experience

Jamie reflects on the awe she witnesses in children who visit her crystal shop. While parents often enter with stress and caution (“Don’t touch anything!”), kids are naturally drawn to the colors, textures, and energies of the crystals.

“Their eyes light up. They get curious. They love it. And I love to watch them.”

Courtney shares how her son, Otto, has always been fascinated by rocks—collecting them on walks, memorizing their names, and charming crystal vendors into gifting him pieces. This childlike wonder is a reminder that awe is healing, and that reconnecting with it can be a powerful part of inner child work.

Defining Success: A Personal and Emotional Journey

The conversation shifts to the theme of success. Jamie admits that her relationship with the word is complicated.

“Success feels like this big, unachievable thing. I don’t even know how to define it.”

Courtney explains that around age nine, children begin to define success and failure—a pivotal developmental stage that often shapes our lifelong beliefs. For many, this age is also tied to religious milestones, such as baptism in the LDS Church, which can carry heavy emotional weight.

“By age eight, your brain is fully mapped. And by age nine, you start categorizing what success and failure look like.”

Both hosts share personal stories of feeling like failures at that age—whether through traumatic religious experiences or internalized beliefs about worthiness. These early definitions of success often become subconscious blocks in adulthood.

Inner Child Healing and Ancestral Work

Courtney and Jamie explore how inner child healing can intersect with ancestral healing. Jamie shares that her grandmother, who she didn’t feel close to in life, now shows up in her healing sessions as a supportive presence.

“I know I’m not just healing me. I’m healing lines back—and lines forward.”

Courtney connects this to her own patriarchal blessing, which emphasized genealogy. While she initially rejected the idea, she now sees it as a metaphor for ancestral healing and cycle breaking.

“Even if you don’t know names or dates, you can still do the inner work. Meditation and intention are powerful tools.”

They discuss how traditional genealogy can be reframed as spiritual lineage work, and how healing ancestral trauma can be just as meaningful as tracing family trees.

Redefining Holidays with Intention

The hosts share how they’ve reimagined traditional holidays like Thanksgiving to include ancestor altars and intentional rituals. Courtney’s family invites guests to bring photos and stories of ancestors, creating a space for remembrance and connection.

“We light a tea candle in a paper bag with their photo and say, ‘Welcome Uncle Sean.’ It’s powerful for the kids to know their names and stories.”

Jamie expresses a desire to bring more meaning and intention to holidays, moving beyond the motions of feasting and gathering to create deeper spiritual experiences.

Success Starts with Self-Love

As the episode circles back to the theme of success, Courtney shares insights from the book You Are a Badass by Jen Sincero. Each chapter ends with the reminder to love yourself—a simple yet profound practice that can transform every area of life.

“We’ve been conditioned to believe shame is how we grow. But it’s a lie. Self-love is where success begins.”

Jamie adds that loving yourself through every step—whether it’s going into debt for a healing trip or navigating a difficult relationship—can shift your entire mindset.

“What if you can’t achieve what you’re trying to achieve until you believe you’re enough?”

This reframing of success as self-compassion rather than external achievement is a powerful takeaway for anyone on a healing journey.

Crystal of the Week: Rose Quartz

The episode wraps with a spotlight on Rose Quartz, the quintessential crystal for self-love, heart chakra healing, and emotional support. Jamie shares a personal story of using Rose Quartz during a crisis with a newborn puppy.

“I held a rose quartz heart while deciding whether to approve surgery. It helped me listen to my heart instead of my head. The puppy survived and thrived.”

Courtney adds a humorous anecdote about mistaking Himalayan salt for Rose Quartz and catching her twins licking it. Despite the mix-up, the crystal still served a purpose—cleansing the air and supporting healing.

Rose Quartz is ideal for:

• Self-love and compassion
• Emotional healing
• Heart chakra support
• Grief and trauma recovery
• Supporting loved ones with breast cancer

Jamie reminds listeners that while crystals don’t “fix” problems, they can support your healing journey when used with intention.

Where to Find the Magic

Rising Moon Minerals
📍 Riverton, Utah (Mountain View Village)
🌐 risingmoonminerals.com
📱 Instagram: @rising_moon_minerals

Prism Healing by Courtney Pearl
🌐 prism-healing.com
📱 Instagram: @prism_healing
🎨 Offering inner child healing, emotional processing, and full moon healing through art workshops.

Final Thoughts

This episode of Practically Magick is a beautiful reminder that success isn’t a destination—it’s a feeling. Whether you’re healing your inner child, connecting with ancestors, or simply learning to love yourself, the journey is the magic.

Want to redefine success for yourself?
Start with intention.
Start with self-love.
Start with magic.